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  • Nerd
    Member
    • Mar 2008
    • 38

    Frequency & Ability

    Ladies & Gents -

    If you could have sex as often as you wanted, how often would you? Does your partner's sex drive match yours?

    Also, to the men out there...how often could you actually physically perform? I mean, sure, you may want to do it 20 times a day, but could you really do it that many times physically...or would it be more like 2 times a day? I'm sure there has to be some sort of physical limitation.
    "[FONT=verdana,arial,helvetica][SIZE=2][FONT=verdana,arial,helvetica][SIZE=2][COLOR=#333333]Some national parks have long waiting lists for camping reservations. When you have to wait a year to sleep next to a tree, something is wrong."
    -George Carlin[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/SIZE][/FONT]
  • Fallen1
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2007
    • 1937

    My drive is much higher than my boyfriends. I am "in the mood" 24/7.

    He tells me the desire is there but he just isn't as young as he used to be ( he's only 25) and doesn't have the energy he once had.

    So needless to say I'm frustrated a lot.
    There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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    • Nerd
      Member
      • Mar 2008
      • 38

      Originally posted by Fallen1
      My drive is much higher than my boyfriends. I am "in the mood" 24/7.

      He tells me the desire is there but he just isn't as young as he used to be ( he's only 25) and doesn't have the energy he once had.

      So needless to say I'm frustrated a lot.
      Fallen1, I'm right there with you - 24/7! My bf does a pretty good job keeping up but there are times of frustration for sure!

      25 seems pretty young for a man to be out of energy (at least to me)!
      "[FONT=verdana,arial,helvetica][SIZE=2][FONT=verdana,arial,helvetica][SIZE=2][COLOR=#333333]Some national parks have long waiting lists for camping reservations. When you have to wait a year to sleep next to a tree, something is wrong."
      -George Carlin[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/SIZE][/FONT]

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      • C
        Member
        • Aug 2007
        • 900

        Originally posted by Nerd
        Fallen1, I'm right there with you - 24/7! My bf does a pretty good job keeping up but there are times of frustration for sure!

        25 seems pretty young for a man to be out of energy (at least to me)!
        And I will join both of you and say I could also go 24/7....With him I am Insatiable....Not bad but very good.....If any of you think that as you age it goes away, forget it.....I think it gets worse.....Bad or worse, I am a bundle of mush....That is why three days ago we had a talk about Eric my Eroscillator.....He lives, no more jealousy.......When the Guest Room door is closed if my husband happens to get up after he is sleeping at night, I informed him, to consider this a sign that I am getting it on with Eric....So honey, enter at your own risk.....I just plain told him I needed it and if he wants to come in and join the party....Enter, baby, enter.... TC, C

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        • anonymouswhitefemale
          Veteran Member
          • Sep 2007
          • 1343

          I'm a guy, and I'd say probably 3 times a day or so? My ex could never keep up, and she'd slumped to once a week in the end, anyway, that relationship became untennable and is now over.

          Time to find someone with a better sex drive...

          And CarolineWH, I guess there goes your pornography/masturbation crusade - you too have now given in.

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          • Fallen1
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2007
            • 1937

            Originally posted by anonymouswhitefemale
            I'm a guy, and I'd say probably 3 times a day or so? My ex could never keep up, and she'd slumped to once a week in the end, anyway, that relationship became untennable and is now over.

            Time to find someone with a better sex drive...
            3 times a day? Wow, my dream guy.
            There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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            • miffed23
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2008
              • 568

              Originally posted by anonymouswhitefemale
              I'm a guy, and I'd say probably 3 times a day or so? My ex could never keep up, and she'd slumped to once a week in the end, anyway, that relationship became untennable and is now over.

              Time to find someone with a better sex drive...

              And CarolineWH, I guess there goes your pornography/masturbation crusade - you too have now given in.
              Hello....

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              • C
                Member
                • Aug 2007
                • 900

                Originally posted by anonymouswhitefemale
                I'm a guy, and I'd say probably 3 times a day or so? My ex could never keep up, and she'd slumped to once a week in the end, anyway, that relationship became untennable and is now over.

                Time to find someone with a better sex drive...

                And CarolineWH, I guess there goes your pornography/masturbation crusade - you too have now given in.
                Anon: After I just about chewed his head off for nothing the other day, I knew it was time to talk with him....A woman has to do what a woman has to do..... So in the words of Larry the Cable Guy, Get it Done!!!!! TC, C

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                • miffed23
                  Veteran Member
                  • Mar 2008
                  • 568

                  Yup, 24/7 is ideal...none of my past sexual partners sex drives have matched mine.

                  They always start so well, the first 10 months or so....then things go pear shaped. I am a very sexually frustrated woman.

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                  • Nerd
                    Member
                    • Mar 2008
                    • 38

                    Originally posted by anonymouswhitefemale
                    I'm a guy, and I'd say probably 3 times a day or so? My ex could never keep up, and she'd slumped to once a week in the end, anyway, that relationship became untennable and is now over.

                    Time to find someone with a better sex drive...

                    And CarolineWH, I guess there goes your pornography/masturbation crusade - you too have now given in.

                    Anon - you say 3 times a day...you could physically do it 3 times a day? I'm not doubting you, I just want to clarify. I'm very interested in potential physical limitations that may plague men in this regard.
                    "[FONT=verdana,arial,helvetica][SIZE=2][FONT=verdana,arial,helvetica][SIZE=2][COLOR=#333333]Some national parks have long waiting lists for camping reservations. When you have to wait a year to sleep next to a tree, something is wrong."
                    -George Carlin[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/SIZE][/FONT]

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