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  • hotflame
    Junior Member
    • May 2018
    • 1

    Sexual confusion

    I am 22 year old male. Me and my 22 year old girlfriend is in a confused and scared state. Today we got a little intimate physically, and although there was no sexual intercourse involved, we rubbed our genitals against each other, with our respective undergarments on. I had already masturbated so I was on the drier side, but she was completely wet. Now we are scared, is there any chance of pregnancy?
    #Additional information: She has hyperthyroidism and hence her periods are irregular, and lasts about 4 days approximately.
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  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Everything I have read indicates that there are 100% dead sperm when semen dries out. Death occurs within minutes.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • atskitty2
      Assistant Admin
      • Aug 2013
      • 4467

      Have you been bored in retirement sir? To be updating your knowledge on such topics?

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        Originally posted by atskitty2
        Have you been bored in retirement sir? To be updating your knowledge on such topics?
        If this was meant for me, haha. I have a tendency to look up stuff I already know the answer to before I reply. Not bored, just trying to make sure I have a correct answer. I've had a wrong understanding of things before.
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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        • atskitty2
          Assistant Admin
          • Aug 2013
          • 4467

          I've read different thoughts on this...I think it's reasonable to believe if it's dry, it's dead. Kinda like a dried up fish isn't likely alive...lol

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          • Texasred
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2009
            • 1216

            Originally posted by atskitty2
            Have you been bored in retirement sir? To be updating your knowledge on such topics?
            LOL!
            Why not just advise hotflame to put on a condom and go ahead and do the deed? Rather than not do it but still worry about it? Alternatively, he could do a little study of basic anatomy and figure out for himself how sperm reaches an egg. They are determined little buggers, but it does seem necessary to have them deposited somewhere inside.

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