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  • Amber
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 1268

    First orgasm

    About 7 years has gone by. It use to be the Lounge where we would post but it looks like they may have cleaned it up in there some. Lol. So i figured it would actually post in the sex forum for once.

    Back then i was a lost hope. I couldn’t get an orgasm through masturbation. It became so discouraging that I haven’t tried much these past years. A guy never came into the picture so it was easily to ignore.

    Had my yearly gynecologist appointment a few days ago. I told her again how I do start to sweat, heavy breathing, sometimes moving of the hips, tensing on the body. She said I was getting close and there is no real reason for not reaching an orgasm.

    Tonight it was somehow different. Something more but I can’t really describe it. But it wasn’t mind blowing so I don’t know if it was just the next step or not. But I read online that your first orgasm is not always momental. I wonder it was an orgasm or not.

    Did i I actually orgasm tonight and the Texinator wasn’t here to share it with! How dare he. Lol. I’m only about 7 years late from the last time he posted. Lol

    My real question is, your first orgasm, was it mind blowing? Are first orgasms always mind blowing?
  • Texasred
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 1216

    "Mind blowing" might be expecting a little too much. Maybe more along the lines of "Wow that felt amazing" would a realistic thought.

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      Welcome back, Amber
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • Amber
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2009
        • 1268

        Thanks Jns! :-)

        Texasred, not amazing either.

        The more I think about it, the more I think that no, it wasn’t an orgasm. Figures!

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        • Joni_McCray
          Junior Member
          • Sep 2018
          • 2

          It was explosive but when i had my first squirting was super explosive...

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          • Texasred
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2009
            • 1216

            Amber, don't give up!
            It'll be worth it when you do.
            PS: has your doctor done a complete hormone check? An hormonal imbalance could be blocking you.

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