[AliciaV]

Are there any tips on positions or ways to make the guy not slip out? Every time I have sex with my boyfriend (missionary) he slips out and it becomes very frustrating for us. I feel guilty and humiliated. Trying other positions is like impossible because I have no clue what to do! He hates doggy style but my ex of 5 years would ONLY do that. So I've never gotten to do other positions. I know he loves having the girl on top but I don't know how to angle myself properly. Tips please!!!!

Sorry for all the posts btw. I have so many questions!

[C]

I would love to answer this here but it would be too hot and heavy...I was trying to figure out how I could do a blog on it here, but again may be too risque...I have my own site and I think you can find it by pulling down the tab by my name on the corner....Life has been hot and heavy here..I will have a blog on my site tonight called "Sex Maniac At The End Of Our Bed"..

Without knowing it, we have somehow stumbled into a bit of S & M...Just a bit but this is wild.....I will have it on by 11 P.M. CST if I can stop smiling...Take care, Caroline

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Take full control yourself...

1. You can control the movements, depth

and:

2. He can't go anywhere now can he?

CW

[AliciaV]

CHANDLERS WISH: Do you move up and down or back and forth? I heard the girl can hurt the guy if she messes up or does a wrong angle. D:

[CHANDLERS WISH]

CHANDLERS WISH: Do you move up and down or back and forth? I heard the girl can hurt the guy if she messes up or does a wrong angle. D:

And here i was trying to be "reserved", texted the man i waited to meet for ages, that i'm not giving advice on any of my experiences, lol...on this Forum, having told him about it...

Ok...

I do believe that is a very good question as, if your bending him backwards and going fast, you can still "slip out" but at the same time, hurt him as he gets stuck inside, but exiting at the same time.

Imagine, his manhood is in a straight up position, or pointing towards his face, not pointing backwards and you'll be safe.

You can experiment this way as well, moving your body sideways, teeze him slowly, and go deep, concentrating on the feeling and what feels good, he will enjoy this as well, as you are in control, so he doesn't know what to expect...

CW

[anonymouswhitefemale]

My ex really sucked at being on top, she didn't really understand the angles, I hate to shift around and take control otherwise she'd hurt me... So yes, you need to know what you're doing on top, but just think about it, listen to what your man says etc etc.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

My ex really sucked at being on top, she didn't really understand the angles, I hate to shift around and take control otherwise she'd hurt me... So yes, you need to know what you're doing on top, but just think about it, listen to what your man says etc etc.

Assuming that was " i had to shift around and take control"...???? lol...

But even so, experiencing and learning together is fun, all bodies are different and getting to know your partners desires and wants and your bodies together are important.

I agree with listening, but i couldn't handle a "lesson", (too old for that anyway), but for the younger generation exploring there, a lesson during the whole experience?

Why couldn't you guide her body towards you, without speaking? As, not to ruin the "feeling"....

Not saying you don't, didn't, but just a question....

CW

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Oops, yeah, that was a typo - a brain typo hahaha.. That was indeed "had"..............

As for what the man says - body language is a language...

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Oops, yeah, that was a typo - a brain typo hahaha.. That was indeed "had"..............

As for what the man says - body language is a language...

Indeed......haha...


Body language is "the best" language...

Didn't want to scare her into thinking he was going to talk the whole time, explaining how to her? lol...

[rcoreyus]

There are books (or movies if you prefer), or just internet sites (though you can run into some ugly stuff) that show various sex positions. Those will help show what sort of angles work.

Basically though, if you are on top, and facing forward, you want to move at an angle, not straight up and down.

Have fun trying things.