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  • Originally posted by Habiba View Post
    i have noticed that men are more comfortable if Our's is shaved.
    Personally, I love all the different styles. But having a little hair shows maturity, and I find that sexy. My personal favorite is my wife keeping a trimmed bush up top and clean shaven on her lips. She really likes me going down on her after intercourse, and this style makes it easy for me to clean her up and give her an amazing orgasm.

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    • Hi Everyone!
      I'm new here and I don't know where I can ask question or where I can get help.
      I need your help.
      I'm new in a relationship, My GF recently lost her virginity with me some 3 months ago. But she is always shy.Our first sexual experience was very nervous, she enjoyed it though but she is unaware of orgasm and anything related to sexual life. I told her a bit but I personally don't know about orgasm, or having orgasm and the feelings before or during orgasm as it's related to females. So when we first had sex sge never told me whether she had orgasm or not.
      But now when she's in quarantine I convinced her for masturbation, i guided her, We were sexting and she was fully aroused, I have recently read about squirting so I asked her for orgasm or squirting from masturbation, So she did what I said, First she played with her Clitoris but she started twitching her belly muscles and couldn't continue to rub her Clitoris as it was very sensitive.
      So I asked her to finger inside her ***** and try to squirt. She put her middle finger in and rubbed her upper side of vagina as i told her about g spot and soon she found it as it was rough and started to feel like she is going to pee while rubbing. I told her that you'll have feeling like you're peeing if you rub your g spot but you'll be squirting soon if you keep on. After 5 minutes she stared her vagina was grabbing her finger and feeling like someone is holding her finger inside and then releasing and then holding. So her vagina started this, She became confused as she was feeling like peeing and her finger was being grabbed so she soon pull her finger out and when she pulled her finger out, a lot of water came out of her ***** without pushing, she her bed was all wet, She sent me pictures but it was a pale yellow colour but it has no smell at all.
      I'm confused whether it's pee or she had squirting for first time.
      Please tell me if she's squirting or it's the pee she had released because it has pale yellow colour. I've read that squirting fluid is clear white or milky white but here it's yellow.
      But it all came out after these feelings like she was full aroused, while rubbing g spot she was having pee like feelings but not able to pee, her finger was grabbed so tightly and released and grabbed again and again as her vagina was gulping her finger.
      But she released yellow.
      Is it squirting or peeing?

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      • Dawood Naseer this was posted in the wrong place -- make sure you post in other places specifically dealing with squirting, as what it sounds like is that your girlfriend has a natural orgasm and squirting vs. peeing, but there are a lot of factors to consider.

        As for this specific thread, when I was younger if there was one shred of pubic hair anywhere on a woman, it would disgust me immensely and I would ask them to completely shave.

        As I have gotten older however, for some reason, pubic hair is now erotic to me, and I actually have grown to like it (ha, no pun intended!), in whatever length and form it comes -- sometimes the hairier the better. I even shocked and surprised myself with that realization and how contrasting it was from my younger years.

        The good news is that now I can enjoy a woman in whatever form she pleases -- and yes, sometimes whatever form I please as well via request.

        Bottom line is that so long as both people are happy with the arrangement, and are of consent, it's nobody else's business what goes on between them and what they like to do...so to each their own.

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        • Aside from keeping a bare bikini line in the summer months, I’ve never felt pressured from a societal standpoint to keep my pubic hair a certain way. Have I tried a few different things out of curiosity? Sure. In my early 20s I tried a full shave and it was a little too weird and immature looking although my boyfriend at the time liked it.

          The way I maintain it these days though is the same way I have for years: bikini line shaved, front with a slightly longer trim and everything else with a much much shorter one. It’s not bare shaven, just super short. I’d be lost if I didn’t have an electric shaver and trimmer that makes this easy to do but because I do it that way all the time it's a quick process.

          I keep it like that for me and me alone. It’s how I feel most comfortable and sex just feels better without a thick mop of hair in the way.

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          • I think that's the bottom line! Each person/couple should do whatever feels right for them -- even if it is to please the other party, so long as it's not something that the giver feels is too big of an ask.

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            • You are not wrong in having a preference so long as your opinion is solely yours and not dictated by societal pressures. I used to be cleanly shaved/waxed as that seemed to be what mainstream men preferred.

              And then, one day my partner (who is still with me today) said the most profound and sexiest thing I have ever heard in my life. We got onto the topic of female pubic hair after we attended a nude beach and noticed a woman with neatly trimmed armpit and bush. I asked him for his opinion and was quite surprised with his response. She was quite average in looks and not overly pretty but he said she was "sexy".

              When I asked him to elaborate, he pointed out the confidence with her own body without seemingly caring about what others thought. He then further explained that the sexiest thing a woman can do is to be herself and not rely on others for feeling the best she can be. When I asked him what he would think if I stopped shaving, he immediately responded by saying if that made me feel the sexiest I could be, then he wanted me to have the confidence to be myself.

              At that time I wasn't overly convinced, so I tried an experiment and stopped shaving a few weeks with the exception of my legs. Much to my delight, he absolutely loved the new look. Since then, he embraces any style I choose and actually looks forward to whatever I decide on. Sometimes I will completely shave or wax, and other times I will let my armpit hair and bush grow in.

              In the end he was right. I feel sexiest sometimes with hair and sometimes without depending on my mood. I have since learned that my partner is totally attracted to my natural scent and pheromones. While I keep myself very clean, I rarely use deodorant around him and even if I do, he never objects so long as I feel good.

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              • Monique Kova This is awesome! It's great to play around with this and follow the "seasons" -- for example, in the winter months, most people are completely covered up anyway, so why not let your bush grow and armpits grow out and just go with the seasons?

                Then for summer, you can shave it all off -- this has the added benefit of allowing an erotic shift for the relationship such that the person dating you feels they are dating someone "different" because there has been a fundamental change in the way you look naked! It's like they get to "cheat" on you with you...

                The same could work with men -- they could cleanly manscape and shave during the summer/beach season, and then get more of a mountain-man look in the winter...

                Sounds like fun and very erotic to me!

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                • It's so interesting how different and unique we all are when it comes to our shaving and grooming styles and preferences. For some it's a total turn on for their partners to have a fuller bush, while others prefer totally clean shaven. I'd say most people fall somewhere in the middle when it comes to bush length preference. Personally I like to use an electric razor to trim up my pubic hair about once a month.

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