[MrMr]

Can we introduce a dialogue that men and women are disappointed in sexual performance rather than penis size.

I've never heard a girl complain about size after having great sex.

The most important you can say is tell me how I can be the best you've ever had.

Also if you're a guy strung up on size, there is nothing you can do about it. But there is nothing stopping you having a really good body.

But as a guy who's always punched well out of my league, girls don't need the hottest guy! Make a girl laugh and you can look like quasimodo.

My best mate is a big afro haired, snaggled tooth ginger guy with a big beard. He is the funniest guy I've ever met and his girlfriend is an absolute worldy.

When I was single I always wanted to be a guy dating a girl who was far more attractive.


I hate hearing guys talk about the size of their d**ck. If I was a girl it would turn me off instantly.

Become better in bed! When I was 17 i had a nsa with a 30 year old woman who told me everything she liked and what to do. I've never had sex with someone that i haven't asked how can this be great.

I don't exactly have a small penis but id much rather have a ripped body and anyone can have that.

I once had a threesome with a girl and another guy who had a 9 inch d**ck. He was horrendous at sex it was embarrassing!

I understand its difficult having body confidence issues but if you undress with the confidence that you want to have great sex then no woman is going to care if you have a beer belly and a small penis.

Be the small guy that's great in bed!

I firmly believe that any woman could turn me on if she undressed with confidence regardless of body composition.

[MrMr]

Don't say you are going to be the best they've ever had but ask what you can do to make it happen. Then just don't stop until you are.

Best not biggest

[WaveRider]

MrMr.

You might want to run your theory past women.

Women want size and skills.

[muffin70]

well size and performance are 2 different things
my wife said a guy she went out with for a couple of years had a big one but she said she found if painful sometimes because apparently he took ages to ejaculate.... mine is on the small size, but she likes it because she can fit it all in her vagina and I tend to ejaculate pretty quickly

[WaveRider]

I've just talked with my g/f. She's told me...again...that size does matter. She does want skills. However, she does want to feel a dude inside of her.

Years ago, my g/f told me about a one-night-stand she experienced. As soon as she felt his penis in her hand, she knew he wouldn't work for her. He was the smallest she's ever had, and, sadly, she remembers him for being small. She mercied him because she felt bad for him and sent him packing.

[Ashlee T.]

It's probably best to agree that like men, all women are different. Do all men want the same thing sexually? No. And neither do all women.

As women, we are generally tied into SO much more than just the size of a guys package. I could never tell you based on the size of a guys package if he was going to be good in the sack or not.

Also, the topic is often geared around the "is bigger better" thought, but muffin is right that many women are turned off by a penis that is TOO large for them because it can make sex very painful. And contrary to what porn teaches us, most of us don't like that kind of pain.

Penis size matters TOTALLY to some. Penis size matters partially to some. Penis size doesn't matter at ALL to others.

[MrMr]

Im bang on 7 inches and i don't think it matters a single bit. I struggle to see the difference between 7 and 5 or 7 and 9. I've always been more concerned with being a good lover. Id hate to think size had anything to do with it

[Maximus]

Ultimately it's all about what experience we create, and how we go about in achieving that.
Knowledge is key, communication is key, awareness is also.

Like in life, we have to work with what we have in the best way possible, without being oblivious about our partner.

Like Ashlee wrote:

Penis size matters TOTALLY to some. Penis size matters partially to some. Penis size doesn't matter at ALL to others.

There are size queens out there, as well as women for whom it doesn't matter.

[Dorosp]

All jokes aside, although men are more vocal when expressing sexual desires and fantasies, they have several anxieties and fears about their own sexuality, the most important being impotence, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual appetite.

[amy40]

talked husband into getting pills "for a little help"
omg....he took one & blew up...never saw him so big!
was a little scared/thought he wouldn't fit, lol