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Wow learned alot from the last post. my ex husband was on the small side , and was able to enter me through the anus with little discomfort. He enjoyed it, and I liked the feeling of giving him pleasure, while also getting enjoyment, but could never reach orgasum , unless he played with my clitty while he was inside my anus. Now living with a boyfriend, who's no giant down there , but bigger, almost 6 inches, its a little uncomfortable. Uncomfortable enough that I can't reach orgasum with him up there even with stimulation of my clitty. But I do like giving him the pleasure. But be careful, about 4 months ago he enterd me naturally ( no condom) he started to have trouble urinating a few days later. He got a uninary tract infection. from doing it bare. He had to see a doctor. He was told not to put it where nature didn't intend it to go unless wearing protection. He was also told if he didn't catch the problem before having vaginal sex with me, he could have gave me a infection. So be carefull -
I have found that using a desensitizing lube called Analblue works amazing for me. Just a small drop is enough to get me loosened up and relaxed enough to really enjoy anal. Like a few have mentioned, you have to be careful not to get injured using the desensitizing lube, but I found that if I use just a small drop it wears off quickly and by this time I'm relaxed and ready to enjoy. If you do go the route of the desensitizing lube, be careful that you or your partner don't get it in your mouth!Comment
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