[jonny]

What's stopping you from packing your bags, driving your car to a new destination, locating a new pad, job, somewhere where you can get out there and enjoy things you like..

Money would stop people from doing that. And I don't think i'd be comfortable just driving off somewhere far away and live.


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For instance:-
What is your favourite colour?
What type of work would you do if you could?
What's your favourite sport?
Do you have hobbies?

Blue.

Radio, but I don't have the voice for it. I don't talk well.

Baseball.

I don't really have any hobbies at the moment.

Also, Internet dating is fun and can work, i'm proof, and it can also be a sure bet on getting dates, they may fail but the more you have the more you understand the process, look at it as "learning".

You like the internet, so why not start googling, self esteme, how to attract a woman, all those types of headings and read, re-read, and re-read, what you don't know, you can only know for either experience, or learning... no point sitting back and complaining, seek....

CW

I probably should look up some of that.

Most of the I run into is the macho b.s. on how to be a bad boy. Corny like that.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Money would stop people from doing that. And I don't think i'd be comfortable just driving off somewhere far away and live.


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Blue.

Radio, but I don't have the voice for it. I don't talk well.

Baseball.

I don't really have any hobbies at the moment.



I probably should look up some of that.

Most of the I run into is the macho b.s. on how to be a bad boy. Corny like that.

Well there you go. You need hobbies, even volunteer work for the poor can bring you in touch with a variety of people, that in itself creates communication, conversations and you never know what parties they invite you to, or if one of the volunteers is your age and likes you...

And, we all need hobbies... So, go back a few years and work out what you liked, must be something, building planes ie) not that that's a good one, but then you can join a club on that.

Seems you are roaming around in life not knowing what for... in a lot of instances, but still with wants and desires.

Okay, so moving is out of the question, not because of money because if you want something, you find a way to get it, but because it's not something you want to do.

Yes, there is a lot on there about "how to seduce a woman", be a bugger not a nice guy, but that's only one subject, there's lot to look up and read, that can help..

I'm a believer you take 1 thing from something worth while, not 20 thousand as gospil with every word spoken.

CW

[jonny]

Getting invited to parties would I guess be a good thing. Never have been to what one would technically all a party.

And, we all need hobbies... So, go back a few years and work out what you liked, must be something, building planes ie) not that that's a good one, but then you can join a club on that.

Besides playing sports badly, I never really had any hobbies. The last true hobby I had was when i was a kid. And that was collecting sports cards.

What's a bugger?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Getting invited to parties would I guess be a good thing. Never have been to what one would technically all a party.




Besides playing sports badly, I never really had any hobbies. The last true hobby I had was when i was a kid. And that was collecting sports cards.

What's a bugger?

Alot of women love sports cars, check out some sites there, something to talk to them about, it's not filled with only guys ...

Mmm... a bugger? Well i've been using it as slang... instead of bad words i guess, or person..... However, i just looked it up and it um means male to male anal.. so i guess i won't be using that word again.. LMAO...

BUGGER...I liked that word.

CW

[jonny]

Alot of women love sports cars, check out some sites there, something to talk to them about, it's not filled with only guys ...

I think id have to read up on cars. I don't know much more than how to drive them.

And it better be an automatic. lol

Mmm... a bugger? Well i've been using it as slang... instead of bad words i guess, or person..... However, i just looked it up and it um means male to male anal.. so i guess i won't be using that word again.. LMAO...

BUGGER...I liked that word.

CW

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww..........Man on man buttsex.


LMFAO!!$

[Happy1]

Jonny,

Seems like you have this idea of how you are going to meet this ideal woman? Nothing anyone has said seems to ring your bell. Just thought maybe I would see if you already had an idea but didnt think it would be good enough unless someone else says it...??? Maybe...???

[jonny]

Jonny,

Seems like you have this idea of how you are going to meet this ideal woman? Nothing anyone has said seems to ring your bell. Just thought maybe I would see if you already had an idea but didnt think it would be good enough unless someone else says it...??? Maybe...???

I really don't have much of an idea, other than maybe a bookstore.

I guess I don't normally go to places where there are tons of women. Or people period.



I think I have an idea to atleast help my shyness. Which is something I have a problem with.

A Strip club!

Nah, I think that would give me an anxiety attack.

That and most of them have been shut down in Memphis.

[lovemyself1]

i think that if you ever are interested in a girl and the subject comes up...just be very confindent and say that you are just waiting for the right person to come along. it's not a lie...cuz i'm sure you are. that would make any girl (thats worth your time) see how sensative you are and that could attract them to you more.
if it ever comes time to have sex...tell her that you're a little nervous and are afraid you wont be good. then blow her mind away!! give her the best sack session ever!! she won't know what hit her.

i know that most of this is when....and what if..... but keep it in mind...i'm sure it will happen soon.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

i know that most of this is when....and what if..... but keep it in mind...i'm sure it will happen soon.

Only if he grows some balls. Some people are virgins till they die, and unless this guy gets a bit of a gameplan together I fear he'll be one of them.

[jonny]

cuz i'm sure you are.

No not really.

If I were waiting for some speical someone. I would be talking about how i love being a virgin. And that i'm gonna wait till i'm married.