I have a problem with having an orgasm during sex, unless it is hard rough sex which actually hurts me. I can get off from myself or my boy from oral sex but not real sex. Any suggestions???
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try help you
try to relax at sex -
Maybe you just like pain?
Some people have there kinks. And that may be yours.
Have you had the same problem with other guys?Comment
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Only 1 in 5 women can orgasm soley from vaginal stimulation, try to combine clitoral stimulation as well. I'm sure that the more you do it (and the more he does it!) things will just get better and better. Just be glad you're one of those that can come from penetration.Comment
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Agree with d.docter. Try to relax. Sometimes it happens because of fear you won't have orgasm. Try not to think about it. Just enjoy
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Have you tried really slow sex? I mean slow like 6 or less thrust a minute. Slow thrusts.Comment
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6 or less a minute? How could someone do that without going limp?Comment
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It's really hard, lol. It was one of the best sexual experiences I've ever had. It takes a lot of self control because lets face it, when we are in there we just want to thrust like we are rabbits.Comment
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jonny6 or less a minute? How could someone do that without going limp?
lol... True damd... thrusting like rabbits does nothing for a female, unless your in a pure state of "horney" and that is the intention, in out over with...damd
It's really hard, lol. It was one of the best sexual experiences I've ever had. It takes a lot of self control because lets face it, when we are in there we just want to thrust like we are rabbits.
I think teezing, is great... Starting but stopping, entering slightly, confusing the mind then entering totally, etc, reverse, and continual is a very good way to ease a person, whilst pleasing in the same accord.
CW
PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!Comment
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It better be.It's really hard,
It reallllllyyyyy better be.
Aww.......I thought women loved the jackrabbit banging? lol.thrusting like rabbits does nothing for a female
Long slow thrusts seem like they would work better for the porn star types than the average or below average guys.Comment
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