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  • Phonesex, anyone?

    In my 20s, I worked as a phonesex girl. It was fun and all, but it led me to not want to engage in that sort of activity in my personal life. Fast forward a few decades and a marriage—I had the sudden urge to send my husband a positively filthy voicemail, which he listened to on his lunch break at work.

    He was pretty shocked, but also…you know, we ended up phonesexing during his bike ride home. Saucy!
    My question is: Is this still something couples do, or does video and text chat make phonesex obsolete?
    I’m not concerned about being trendy, but I’m legit curious to know if it’s common among modern couples.

  • You've certainly given me an idea.
    We don 't live together, and we're both busy and stressed out. Last weekend, all our stress was unleashed on each other sexually. After it was all over, we both said how much we'd needed that, and I wondered what we could do to make it happen more often. Sometimes I send him a naughty pic at night, which he may or may not see until the next day, but I'm usually too tired and stressed out to think of it, or do anything too sexy.

    This is something I could do in the car, or early in the morning before he ever wakes up. He never answers his phone while working, so I could easily just call him, leave him a surprise sexy message, and he can enjoy it whenever he finds it. We need more sexual tension, as right now, it's the last thing on our minds.

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    • Me and my fiance use it as a tool to edge up to great sex. I want a girl to call him with a role, Im interested in his response.

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      • I love the idea of using phone sex as foreplay, Molliges! It's such a sexy and dare I say easy way to get into the mood and connect with your partner at any time of the day. I've yet to experience full-blown phone sex, but definitely want to give it a try. I feel like it would be more engaging than sexting.

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