[Chloe1]

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I'm interested in purchasing a vibrator, any suggestion on a good model for a beginner like me who has never tried one and doesn't know anything about them?

[Motorguy]

I'm interested in purchasing a vibrator, any suggestion on a good model for a beginner like me who has never tried one and doesn't know anything about them?

Well Chloe1 I am no expert on vibrators but my wife's has many and many different types of them. The one she really like's is her pocket rocket that will pleasure your clitoris like no tomorrow then she has this other one that is really good.It's called the g spot vibrator that will send you to the moon with pleasure. There many place you can order on line from Amazon plus Adam&Eve and then Trogan. Some women like to order online it's easier and plus less problem of being embarrassed going into a adult book store to purchasing one. So good luck in your searches for that vibrator but I am just going by what my wife really enjoys for her self.

[kira]

Adult stores, at least around here, have a horrible selection. Pretty much any site on the internet is better. Through it all this basic little $10, water proof vibrator I got like 8 years ago is still one of my best. Biggest thing is your material preferences. I don't particularly like hard materials. I have too much issues with squishing the end of my urethra even when there's lots of lube. I have all really padded stuff except some rabbit type vibrators with the section of moving beads at the base of the insertable length. Downside is vibration does not travel as well through soft material. It takes a stronger motor which means more expensive and often louder especially if you try to cut costs and still get more vibration. Many do like metal vibrators and there are a variety of other materials and prices. Some are made to be more visually appealing. That never had an impact on me but there are people who love their expensive glass or rarer metal dildos and vibrators.

[jen1447]

Just go to Lelo's website and you'll never look back. They'll have anything you need, but for a beginner I'd recommend their Iris model.

Can I ask if you're a beginner as in a young woman or a woman who's just now exploring the vibrator possibilities? Either one is pretty exciting.

[Chloe1]

Just go to Lelo's website and you'll never look back. They'll have anything you need, but for a beginner I'd recommend their Iris model.

Can I ask if you're a beginner as in a young woman or a woman who's just now exploring the vibrator possibilities? Either one is pretty exciting.

Thanks for the info everyone. re Jenn's question, I'm in my late 30's wanting to try something new with my hubby and on my own! I'm the same Chloe who posted a thread a couple of months ago about spicing things up in bed with my husband and fulfilling his smoking fetish... Sex has been amazing I've started indulging his fetish! Jen did you try smoking again with the BF? I remember you mentioning it was a great experience when you tried?

[jen1447]

Hey Chloe! Why did you go undercover lol, forgot your password?

I have smoked a couple more times with BF yeah. I like it, but it's kind of like I thought it would be in terms of how often we do it, which is not a lot. That's okay tho, it just makes it more hot when we do. I'm happy to say I haven't slipped at all with the smoking either tho. Each time I've had BF buy me a pack, I smoke maybe two or three when it's playing out, we finish, and I throw the rest of the pack away later. No cheating! How about you, any new twists with the whole thing? Blowing smoke rings around his penis etc.?

Do get the Lelo Iris hon, you'll love it. If you want to branch out from there just ask away later, but Iris will be a great starter.

[Motorguy]

Well good luck with the vibrating hunting Chloe, that will for sure add some really good pleasurable times in the bedroom with husband.

[Chloe1]

Hey Chloe! Why did you go undercover lol, forgot your password?

I have smoked a couple more times with BF yeah. I like it, but it's kind of like I thought it would be in terms of how often we do it, which is not a lot. That's okay tho, it just makes it more hot when we do. I'm happy to say I haven't slipped at all with the smoking either tho. Each time I've had BF buy me a pack, I smoke maybe two or three when it's playing out, we finish, and I throw the rest of the pack away later. No cheating! How about you, any new twists with the whole thing? Blowing smoke rings around his penis etc.?

Do get the Lelo Iris hon, you'll love it. If you want to branch out from there just ask away later, but Iris will be a great starter.

It has been a long time since I've been here, I've missed sharing some of my experience! I just went on the Lelo website and I must say the Iris model is kind of intimidating! Wouldn't it be better to start with a medium size model? What do you like about this model vs. other ones?

Glad to hear you still enjoy smoking once in a while during sex, but glad you are not back to smoking for real, I would have felt guilty! Does your BF enjoy it or is it all about you?

Smoking for my hubby has been lots of fun and has brought sparks back into our sex life! No chance of ever doing it for other reasons than turning him on but it is still a great experience I love to share with him. We do it about every 2nd week if we can, so it is still something extra special and a treat when we do indulge. I must say that it is not all about him because I enjoy it too. I have a reputation of being such a good and perfect wife who wouldn't do anything bad, so doing something so out of character for me brings up another side of my personality and makes me feel extra sexy every time I light up. It is kind of weird.

A crazy story happened to me a few weeks ago while I was out of town for work. It had been a while since we had sex and I was feeling really horny, wishing I was home instead of on the road. This has never happened to me before! I was sexting back and forth with my husband late one night while I was pleasuring myself when my husband texted that he couldn't wait for me to be back so I could smoke for him again. I got a sudden urge to smoke, it was really weird! The next morning, I got my room changed for a smoking room and that night, I bought myself a pack of cigarette a smoke 2 while sexting with my husband! ( and having some fun on my own too!). My husband later told me it was a real turn on for him to imagine me smoking on my own while pleasuring myself.

No need to worry about my health, I don't inhale when I do smoke except maybe once per cigarette, which drives him absolutely crazy when I do!

[jen1447]

The Iris is pretty moderate hon, maybe 5-6 inches? It'd be just fine for a beginner. If you want to just start with a clit vibe, get the Mia. Actually get both - the Mia is a great accessory type vibe in that you can take it anywhere and it's very discreet. Every woman should have one. It looks like a lipstick.

The BF enjoys anything I enjoy, so the smoking is mainly for me, and by extension it then becomes about him, if that makes any sense. But we started it because I wanted to after I learned about it from you! Ha-ha, good story about the solo smoking too. Did you send him any naughty pics?

[Something_Awesome]

Chloe, get the Iris model in light blue. I was in your shoes and Jen recommended the Iris for my GF and I. It was my GF's first time with a vibe or dildo period. It is not really vulgar looking in person. As for the size, well, my GF is a smaller girl and it works great for her.

My GF is extremely girly and the first thing she said about it was how great it looked. Also has great build quality. Just make sure to get the light blue. It is a very soft color (softer than the pink) and just makes it look better.

Excuse typos as I am driving.