[lime_lemur]

Hey all, I'm looking for ways to loosen up a bit down there. I don't get to see my boyfriend much nowadays, and when I do see him, sex is kinda difficult because I'm not used to the stretching. He's a good size, but I just tighten up too much in his absence. I've never tried any kind of sex toys, but I was wondering if someone could point me towards some things that might help me stretch out, something I could order online. Any reasonably priced dildos/related things that would be helpful for stretching?

[Texasred]

Does he complain?
Have you tried extra lubrication?

[WildChild]

Kegels are your best friend. They don't make you tight, they make your muscles stronger and more toned. They give you more control.

[Lusty Lynn]

Agree with TexasRed. A good quality lube on your mans knob and gentle penetration until you get used to his girth.

[PJhavinfunagain]

Is it uncomfortable for him or you? If he is doing a good job getting you worked up it should not be an issue. Make sure to drink plenty of water and be hydrated when you know you will be seeing him (it helps you to self lubricate better). Masturbate when he is not around, it will help your body responses. They do make special Vaginal dilation devices to help women mostly for medical reasons.

[Femme]

Just find a nice vibrator hun.
I highly recommend the Rabbit.

[barberchk]

Buy a toy that when you see it your first reaction will be "that's pretty big". Buy lube. Insert it. Play with it. Then yoru vaginal walls and opening will expand and become relaxed enough to accept his whole penis without hurting you. My husband and I do that sometimes and its the best sex Ive ever had. Don't worry. You will shrink back to your old size again as long as you don't do it everyday.