ok, so my guy loves me to strap up and give it to him and loves when I wear a harness, the trouble is my pubic bone gets bruised and so sore. I have heard mention of something called a driver pad however have had no luck finding such a thing (to go between the dildo & harness) anyone have similar experience with this and any suggestions as to what I can do? I have already tried three different types of harnesses
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get some egg crate material and double sided tape and put some cushioning in that thing! -
My wife had a similar issue with her harness. We found that using a wash cloth or small towel helped with the padding and prevented the pain. Also, if you change positions and don't stay in doggy style the whole time it takes pressure off that area.Comment
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