I do not know what to do, pegging is my nightmare!

**bubba29** · 05-07-2014, 09:27 AM

you have some kinky fetishes....nothing wrong with that. i want my wife to peg me but she won't. i don't feel like i have a corrupted mind because of what i want. there are many things i want that my wife won't do. for you, you have to decide how happy your man makes you. does he make you happy enough to make up for the lack of kink? in a perfect world, you'd have someone who shares your interests in the bedroom and out.

does your boyfriend allow anything in his ******? you may start small with a g spot toy on his prostate while you give him a BJ. he is sure to enjoy that. maybe that would be a gateway to something more.

**Motorguy** · 05-07-2014, 10:04 AM

Originally posted by Leina

My ex, almost forced me to try fisting

, then me fisting him

, than toys, and then strap-on, pegging him. I felt awkward I have not had much sex experience I was very shy at that time.
But later I have realised that I have started to fantasize how I am doing my boyfriend. I started to enjoy pegging him in different positions, it drove me crazy, my orgasms became brighter and longer.
My ex was straight so he did not asked for strap-on every night, but I did, I was forcing him. I have bought us double sided strap-on. I even time to time tried after pegging him to insert larger dildos in his bum and to feed him his own cum.
But two years ago we split up and I have met my new boyfriend we are in LOVE, but he does not do any kinky staff, I have tried for so long and I have tried to get him drunk and played kinky games, showed him porn and tried to explain to him that I want his bum badly, but he said that he is not gay and he will not do it.
I feel so worried now, I do not come anymore, I fake it, all I am thinking is to fist my boyfriend’s sexy bum and put my huge strap-on in him. I do not cheat and I do not talk to my ex,I hate him.
I do not want to meet some perverts for one night kinky sex; I do not know what do.
Is pegging normal?

How many of you doing it?
Is my mind corrupted?
Why I like so much **** fisting?
Why I like my ex to eat his sperm?
I am not a ********************************; I think my ex destroyed my mind completely.

Very interesting sexually as well being kinky life style there Leina, Not many heterosexual men really don't like thing stuff stuck up inside there ****. So they maybe a hard to find another man who's into this life style. if this something you like in your life style maybe put a ad on craigslist to locate such a kinky guy who will enjoy you living out your kinky sexually life style with him. As I say don't judge people because what I see not normal can be normal to others as the old rule go's different strokes for different folks. Good luck on your adventures.

**jen1447** · 05-07-2014, 02:06 PM

Originally posted by Leina

Is pegging normal?

I wouldn't say normal as in it's going on everywhere all the time, but there's certainly no more 'wrong' with it than any other activity two people consent to.

How many of you doing it?

I do.

Is my mind corrupted?

This sounds like a silly question at first, but I have to say that I have seen fetishes develop into obsessions as regards this fisting stuff. People (men and women alike) seem to be more vulnerable to this notion of pushing the envelope when it comes to fisting (or just putting large things into smaller places), and with fisting the objects just seem to get larger and larger. I don't do that and never cared for it, fwiw.

Why I like so much **** fisting?

People are just obsessed with bums.

Why I like my ex to eat his sperm?

That sounds like something potentially a bit different ....you sound like you're subjugating him with that. There are certain types of sex play that involve portraying one or the other partner as worthless, and one way of playing that out is to use their sexual fluids in a wasteful or destructive way. In the case of a guy for example, making him eat his own sperm might be showing how it will never inseminate anyone. Some people get off on that.

Couple things I don't like - you say you were forcing your ex to get pegged ....were you forcing him or 'forcing' him? I hope you understand that you're not actually allowed to make someone do something against their will. Being as the kink is often associated with submission I suspect you mean 'forcing,' but if not, you raped him. Also you mention getting your new BF drunk. Again, if you do that in order make it less likely that he'll resist you or something like that, you're treading in criminal sexual conduct territory. I hope you just mean loosening up his inhibitions to talk about it more frankly or something along those lines.

**Leina** · 05-07-2014, 04:23 PM

Thank you for your answers it helped a bit to clear up mess in my head. But I still do not know what to do, I want my boyfriend, but he does not want to have fun my way.

PS. Do not worry nothing was done against will.

**jen1447** · 05-07-2014, 05:21 PM

Ok, great.

As to what you can do at this point, you have to decide if you can live without it or not. The way I put it to my BF once we started getting serious was that it was basically manditory. He was free to walk if he didn't want to get pegged, but staying with me meant thag he would be, and if he didn't gjve it up I'd let him go. Worked for me, and he's totally fine with it now.

Btw, there's nothing 'gay' about anything a man and woman get up to together. Maybe tell him he needs to man up and put that silly notion behind. Be a man and bend over!

**rcoreyus** · 05-07-2014, 06:41 PM

While I have nothing against pegging, and would be happy to try if my wife were willing, the majority of me are not up for it. While you can try to convince him, don't be surprised if he never wants to do it, and it isn't fair to pressure him. You need to decide how important it is to you. If it really matters though, don't "settle" for someone where you won't be happy.

**greyfox** · 05-12-2014, 11:59 AM

As a "pegged" husband myself I can tell you that its an amazing experience, although it takes some getting used to. The very idea of being at her mercy as she grinds away with her "****" in my *** until she orgasms is the real deal for me. Sometimes it takes only a couple minutes, sometimes maybe 20 minutes but either way I have to hold my own orgasm back so as to not go too soon or it makes it a little tough to let her finish. Always been a fascination for me that women can have an orgasm while being pounded in the *** and still hang in there until the man finishes. Having been in that situation myself its really tough for a man to do that. Love me some pegging though!!

**jen1447** · 05-12-2014, 01:03 PM

Do you like the sensation specifically, or is it moreso the idea of what's really happening? The main appeal for my BF is that it makes me happy, and that it's a bit crazy-hot to think what I'm doing to him. I don't know that he really loves the feeling itself as much as those things, altho he says it's nice when you're relaxed and lubed enough to take it easily. I feel much the same way about anal, maybe a tad more enthusiastic about the feeling itself. Bums are actually very sensitive.

**greyfox** · 05-13-2014, 05:50 AM

At first is was more about the "idea" or the kinkiness of it, over a short time I came to like the sensation as well. I think I learned to angle myself just right and get my prostate stimulated which is incredible. The exchange of power though is definitely a huge turn on even years into doing it pretty regularly.

I do not know what to do, pegging is my nightmare!

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