[Julian90]

what are your opinions about virtual sex or having virtual relationships for sex? Have any of you experience it or thought about it?.
I've been very curious and wonder what the opposite sex thinks about it (I'm a male) and how open they are for it?
I may be wrong or not , but with all these social media platforms out there, i wonder if I'm missing out on anything?
Would love to hear women's thoughts about this.

[Wednesday L.F.]

Are you talking about using an Occulus or similar VR setup? VR girlfriends are increasingly common and have been used to great effect by recent divorcees or busy dudes who can’t find time for a relationship. There are more men than ever marrying their AI sex dolls. I. Totally in favor of that.

[Julian90]

No, to clarify im.talking about live video chat sex with an actual human.

[atskitty2]

Julian90 Hi there! welcome to the forum!
Great question!
I'm a female and I know these sorts of things exist but it's not for me. I don't think there's anything "wrong" with it, but it's just not for me. I spent a lot of time single and basically sex-less after my divorce, but this type of sexual gratification isn't right for me.
If it's right for you, then enjoy it. I think there are many reasons men or women would take that route, so it's a viable option for many.

[Julian90]

atskitty2 I've never tried myself. Comsidered it but wanted to find out a women's opinion. Now that the conversation opened up, may I ask if you are confortable responding, what is gratifying for you after being sex-less for some time now?

[kate_emory]

My husband digs these a lot, and they can be fun as a couple, definitely. We tend to lean toward the ones like Chatroulette or Bazoocam that allow you to keep a sort of anonymity, if you choose. Mostly, the other users tend to be men, but we do run across other couples as well. Single females are a rarity, though we do see them from time to time.

[FeelingWeird]

Been doing dirty chats online with one of my best friends for about two years now. We have been very good friends for about 12 years (we met when we started college) and over the past two years we have become a lot closer and started this just as kind of a fantasy thing during the pandemic. For a long time it was just acting out a fantasy scenario over chat, but we have progressed to sending explicit pics and vids. Haven't quite made it to live video yet but we might. Most of all, we want to be able to get together and be intimate in person (we live in different states and it is still tough with the pandemic still going on). I personally love this and initiated most of it. It really deepened our friendship and we became much closer. Since things have steadily progressed for us, I hope we may eventually reach a real relationship, as we care a lot about each other.