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  • Wednesday L.F.
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2020
    • 362

    Boob pics?

    My husband finally arrived in the 2000’s and now has an iPhone. As one does, I immediately sent him a boob pic while he was at work. There’s no reason I should feel weird about sending a nude to my partner of 23 years, but I kinda do.
    I'm not even sure why. Maybe because of the cloud?

    People still send nudes right? It’s not weird, is it?
    Maybe I feel like I’m too old for that sort of thing?

    Do you folks do this?
  • amy40
    Veteran Member
    • Nov 2016
    • 2732

    so what did your husband say?
    did he reply back?

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    • atskitty2
      Assistant Admin
      • Aug 2013
      • 4467

      Yeah, it's still a thing. I send partially clothed, nude or sexually suggestive pics to my man when I know he could use a little mental break.

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      • Wednesday L.F.
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2020
        • 362

        Originally posted by amy40
        so what did your husband say?
        did he reply back?
        Yes, smooch emoji.

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        • jns
          Assistant Admin
          • Mar 2010
          • 8398

          Originally posted by Wednesday L.F.
          My husband finally arrived in the 2000’s and now has an iPhone. As one does, I immediately sent him a boob pic while he was at work. There’s no reason I should feel weird about sending a nude to my partner of 23 years, but I kinda do.
          I'm not even sure why. Maybe because of the cloud?

          People still send nudes right? It’s not weird, is it?
          Maybe I feel like I’m too old for that sort of thing?

          Do you folks do this?
          Myself I would love to get such photos from a romantic interest but in work environments you have to be careful because some people can be sensitive and that can affect the person getting the photo's job in some cases. I wish it wasn't so but it is.
          I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
          ...
          Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

          From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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          • Kayla Lords
            Writer & Contributor
            • Aug 2021
            • 106

            People definitely still send nudes, though yes, knowing they probably/definitely live in the cloud is a strange feeling for me sometimes, too.

            When I first got together with my now-husband, we were long-distance and daily (or nearly) nudes became part of how we communicated. Even now, when we've lived together since 2014, I'll sometimes send him one just because I can...even though he's only a room away, lol.

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            • FeelingWeird
              Member
              • Feb 2021
              • 58

              This is something I have always avoided for privacy reasons. I did end up sending a few to a long-distance partner last fall through Facebook Messenger and then deleted them from the message thread a couple of weeks later because I was worried about hacking. Most did not include my face but a few did. I have no moral objections to nudes, but I definitely have privacy concerns about sending them. Nothing is really private anymore, and if they fall into the wrong hands, they can do a lot of damage to a person's life. It's not really worth it to me.

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              • Gena G.
                Writer & Contributor
                • Mar 2021
                • 38

                I know that there's a chance your nudes could somehow get out because I'm sure if someone wanted to it wouldn't be hard to get into my icloud account but my thoughts are that simply no one would want to do that lol. If I was a celebrity or a politician I definitely wouldn't send them but for now I feel protected by my anonymity. There would be a lot easier ways for someone to enjoy boobs on the internet than hacking into account for my blurry *** pics.

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                • Terra84
                  Member
                  • Jul 2022
                  • 22

                  Oh Yes Girl couples do send each other pics, Some couples like myself even send each other audio & video. Might be because we don't get to see each other that often. I hope he replied back.

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                  • Alison H.
                    WHI Lead Administrator
                    • Aug 2019
                    • 312

                    I don't think it's weird to send nudes at all, as long as they're going to someone trusted.

                    Heck, one group I belong to (all women) used to send each other "birthday boobs" — we'd take photos (neck down) of our breasts in lacy bras to celebrate (you guessed it) someone's birthday and we'd share them in a group chat. LOL! It was just sexy, harmless fun and I don't even know why we ever started doing it... but it just became a thing.

                    But too, they're a trusted group so I never had any worries about doing it (I'm also never planning to run for public office in the future...). If someone hacked my photos, oh well... they got a treat, I guess?

                    I do think that for privacy reasons, it's probably safest to go the "headless" route just in case. But really, as long as both parties are trustworthy, I don't see the harm in it. And people definitely still do it.

                    I remember back in the day when pictures could only be developed at a photo-mat, someone likely had a great time developing photographs an old boyfriend took of me. Again, no plans to run for office so... it is what it is. LOL!

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