purity culture

[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

Does anybody think that purity culture is a form of abuse? I was raised in a southern Baptist home and grew up in purity culture. Thankfully I never fell completely other the spell, but unfortunately there was a time in my life when I thought that abstinence till marriage was the right way, and sadly I'd judged other girls in high school for being sexually active. I think this was because of the fear-instilling tactics that the pastor's wife had used during youth group. She basically told us that sex was physically exhausting and that orgasms weren't real. It wasn't till I went to college that my views completely changed.

If purity culture is anything like it was 50 years ago then yes I believe it possibly is.
If you have ever read Master's and Johnson's "Human Sexual Response" then yeah it can be associated with some very serious potential issues.

Still having said that I think most of the serious issues were resolved except for the very heavily indoctrinated religious women.

Physically exhausting? depends on the couple involved, not everybody drives fast and even if they did exercise is healthy and good for you.

The only negative is if a women is not sexually aroused.

Personally I think all women should wait till they are married before they have sex.

In this promiscuous age everything is way over sexualized. Instead of something beautiful its most likely horrible experience for most girls these days.

Go down to an S.T.D. clinic .and have a look at how many people are lining up to see doctors.

thousands upon thousands of people.

Is orgasm real yes it is but its extremely rare if you want a really powerful orgasm.

I believe orgasms come in strengths.

So yeah the church is right because most women will never experience orgasm.

Most people lack compassion, empathy, sensitivity, and are only interested in themselves.

Sadly sex has become commercialized it's a business now.

still having said that maybe just maybe if you were to find somebody that is extraordinary that is not ruined by porn then yeah sex could be a beautiful experience.

Orgasm must be amazing for a girl or a women but very few if any are fortunate enough to experience it.

The problem is most people have no idea how to make love to each other.

Orgasm died because most people are to put it bluntly stupid.

Most if not all people just follow people that are selling something.

Heard mentality means the blind follow the blind.

So you end up with issues that very rarely if ever get resolved.

The gspot is nonsense, grinding the clitoris won't produce orgasm.

Sex toys don't work it's all nonsense and just a waste of money, and time.

Sure maybe it might feel good but I have never used "toys" while making love to a partner.

Like everything in life nothing comes from nothing, nothing ever did.

Orgasm is allusive and very hard to achieve only hours of foreplay with produce an orgasm.

What man will put that much time into producing it ? Very very few if any man is willing to put the time in to achieve it.

This is why marriages fail, and women and men cheat.

People lack any real depth and emotion now and there are so many people with mummy and daddy issues which means problems with intimacy and passion.

I don't want to put you off because decent guys do still exist but i'm sure they are very hard to find and are extremely rare.

[Wednesday L.F.]

Wow dude, I’m curious to know why anyone so sex negative would be hanging out here. As a woman who experiences regular orgasms with my husband and with sex toys, I gotta say a lot of this is way off base.

[jns]

As a woman who experiences regular orgasms with my husband and with sex toys, I gotta say a lot of this is way off base.

As a man who has had a number of partners, I have seen a wide range of results, from women who don't orgasm at all to those who do fairly easily. Of course, my skills (or lack of them) have probably been part of both the failures and the successes.