[Rayn]

Hello. I posted this to another discussion, but decided to make it it's own topic. But, i have a question that i believe is appropriate for this forum and i don't think it's something that's often discussed. But HOW do women prefer or most enjoy their partner to cum inside them?

Is it situstional (i.e. person, position)? Is it environmental (i.e. bedroom, kitchen, backseat of the car)? Is it technical (i.e. penis still in deep, male still thrusting)? Are there any other factors that impact how women prefer or most enjoy their partner to cum inside them?

To put this into context, as a guy, my personal favorite is missionary. Sounds pretty vanilla i know, but hear me out. And that's not to say my wife and i don't enjoy a variety of positions throughout our sessions (we definitely do). Nor do i "finish" in missionary every single time. All I'm saying is that missionary is my personal favorite.

The reason for me is because of the increased intimacy and feeling. This is my wife after all, whom i love dearly and with all my heart. Not just some random woman i met in a club or bar that night. The excitement of the build up is a factor as well. I'll breath heavier, and thrust harder and faster. She'll pick up on this, wrap her arms and legs around me, pulling me in deeper. We can kiss and say how much we love each other or how good it feels. She'll even squeeze her vaginal muscles on my little guy (kegels work ladies). After that, I'm a goner. This gives me the most intense and explosive orgasms, which is why it's my personal favorite.

So I'm curious about how women prefer this act to occur.

Similarly, I'd like to see an article (if a link exists, please share) or hear your thoughts about how women best prefer to reach their orgasm. Sure there's a bunch of technical stuff out there, clit, gspot, yada yada, on ways to get women to orgasm. But there's not really a lot out there that explains how women best like this to happen.

Thanks and happy new year to all.

[atskitty2]

I'm not sure I completely understand what it is you're asking here. I prefer for him to do whatever feels best for him in that moment. We may be odd in that we don't really have favorite positions, but we really like variety, and changing things up often. So, it makes no difference to me whether it's missionary in bed, from behind in the kitchen, or me on top in a chair. I love it all.

[Wednesday L.F.]

I imagine the reason there's not a one-stop guide to "what women" like is that there's no answer that works for every women. Anatomy, for example, makes a huge difference in how sexual satisfaction is best achieved. Some women can have glorious orgasms from missionary (or other) penetrative intercourse alone. But about 70% of us require specific (often clitoral, but not always) stimulation to reach completion. The best way to find out what works for your partner is communication and practice.
If there was ever a one-size fits all answer, we probably lost it with the Library of Alexandria. LOL

[Rayn]

I'm not sure I completely understand what it is you're asking here. I prefer for him to do whatever feels best for him in that moment. We may be odd in that we don't really have favorite positions, but we really like variety, and changing things up often. So, it makes no difference to me whether it's missionary in bed, from behind in the kitchen, or me on top in a chair. I love it all.

Hey atskitty2, yes, variety is awesome. And, yes it's completely dependent on the situation. For my wife and i, we both enjoy and "finish" in a variety of positions and sceneries. But the favorite for us both for me to cum in her is missionary. For me, as stated in my original post. For her, is because she can feel me swell inside her right before and the build up often makes her cum.

Now, for her orgasm, her favorite is cowgirl, whereas mine is doggy.

I'm just curious if other women have a favorite as well.