[Roxie88]

Thank you for all those who offered helpful advice!
thankfully, I brought it up during an intimate moment and the reaction was success!!

I'm still a little confused about why I needed to ask first.. but not complaining lol

[Rayn]

Thank you for all those who offered helpful advice!
thankfully, I brought it up during an intimate moment and the reaction was success!!

I'm still a little confused about why I needed to ask first.. but not complaining lol

Roxie88 I'm glad it worked out for you. You asked because consent goes both ways and you wouldn't want to spoil the mood by putting your partner in a situation where they are uncomfortable. With any luck, do you think this will be a regular occurrence or is it still in the trial phase?

[Zoë T.]

I would also recommend trying out a flavored lube! In fact, it might be fun to go to a store together (or look online) and pick one out that sounds particularly enticing. It could be a subtle and sexy way to inspire him. My personal favorite edible lubes are from Sliquid. They have a ton of delicious and unique flavors and are strong enough to really mask the taste of oral sex.

[MeLuvCookies]

I might sound weird or pathetic as a guy but **** I would kill for a woman to want me to go down on her so much. That is one of my biggest things I miss in my marriage and one of the biggest issues in our intimacy that as I guy I truly love and need to go down on a woman, like it is a selfish thing for me I need it for me it is my happy place I get lost in it, and my wife is the only woman I have ever met who has never ever liked a guy going down on her. I thought I could live without it but I miss it bad and it is a constant source of frustration for me. But she is a hard no always has been says she always will be. Not to sound like a jerk but **** your man doesn't know what he is missing.

[Alison H.]

Some people have aversions to oral sex, whether giving, receiving, or both. I think if there's an issue going on with either partner (wanting or not wanting it), a conversation is definitely in order, and ideally outside of the bedroom. At the same time, a conversation isn't necessarily going to make someone want it (or not). It's like anal sex in that way—some folks love it, others hate it and absolutely won't do it. Neither is "wrong" but a couple may need to find other ways to be compatible in bed, as in, other activities they both agree on and enjoy.