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    Hello everyone I hope all are doing fine and Wish you all a very happy Christmas and New Year ahead.

    I am asking this question on behalf of my GF. Me and She is with each other from almost 2 and half years and we started to have sex after around six months of dating. Since I had high sex drive and she also has good sex drive but recently we faced issue many times. Generally we have consent of each other before initiating any sexual act and when we got into it we both became control less and do whatever feels good for the moment. Recently I have been very dominating over her and having a rough sex, although she likes it in the beginning for many times but recently she is facing some issue. When I started to stroke her in she feels good and as I raised the speed she moans like she is enjoying but I feels like she is not. She is just faking it for the sake so that I could enjoy it. She knows I like to be rough and she is might be supporting for that matter. I feels that when I endup she breathed like ohh that's end now instead of being enjoying it.

    Is this really she is not enjoying it or Just I am overthinking?

    I asked her multiple times that does she enjoyed and she said everytime that she enjoyed it too much.

    Thanks!

  • Originally posted by Summer View Post
    Hello everyone I hope all are doing fine and Wish you all a very happy Christmas and New Year ahead.

    I am asking this question on behalf of my GF. Me and She is with each other from almost 2 and half years and we started to have sex after around six months of dating. Since I had high sex drive and she also has good sex drive but recently we faced issue many times. Generally we have consent of each other before initiating any sexual act and when we got into it we both became control less and do whatever feels good for the moment. Recently I have been very dominating over her and having a rough sex, although she likes it in the beginning for many times but recently she is facing some issue. When I started to stroke her in she feels good and as I raised the speed she moans like she is enjoying but I feels like she is not. She is just faking it for the sake so that I could enjoy it. She knows I like to be rough and she is might be supporting for that matter. I feels that when I endup she breathed like ohh that's end now instead of being enjoying it.

    Is this really she is not enjoying it or Just I am overthinking?

    I asked her multiple times that does she enjoyed and she said everytime that she enjoyed it too much.

    Thanks!
    Women can enjoy sex in many ways, just like men can. Speed can raise the sensations but it might not bring her to orgasm. If you want to explore more about her reaching orgasm, you should let her lead some of the time. My experience is that women have their own pace that helps them reach a peak. That being said, each woman is different so there is not a one size fits all answer. In my experience, the women I have brought to orgasm have became less expressive in words and formed thoughts as they have approached orgasm. That follows my own experience reaching orgasm. Your mileage may vary.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • Originally posted by Summer View Post
      Hello everyone I hope all are doing fine and Wish you all a very happy Christmas and New Year ahead.

      I am asking this question on behalf of my GF. Me and She is with each other from almost 2 and half years and we started to have sex after around six months of dating. Since I had high sex drive and she also has good sex drive but recently we faced issue many times. Generally we have consent of each other before initiating any sexual act and when we got into it we both became control less and do whatever feels good for the moment. Recently I have been very dominating over her and having a rough sex, although she likes it in the beginning for many times but recently she is facing some issue. When I started to stroke her in she feels good and as I raised the speed she moans like she is enjoying but I feels like she is not. She is just faking it for the sake so that I could enjoy it. She knows I like to be rough and she is might be supporting for that matter. I feels that when I endup she breathed like ohh that's end now instead of being enjoying it.

      Is this really she is not enjoying it or Just I am overthinking?

      I asked her multiple times that does she enjoyed and she said everytime that she enjoyed it too much.

      Thanks!
      Unfortunately, women and men can both fake things in the bed room. The good news is that, often, this is done from a place of selflessness. Your partner is trying to make you feel good, make you feel good about your performance, and/or signal that they are into you. Men/women can be such good actors that sometimes we can tell, sometimes we can't tell. But if you're gut instinct tells you that she doesn't like it, I would either: a) stop doing it or b) have an honest conversation where you casually mention that you don't want her to ever fake or be honest when she doesn't like something or c) just let her keep doing what shes doing and ignore your gut. If you choose option a) and she says, "why did you stop doing that" just be honest and tell her because your gut feeling is that she doesn't like it. The only solution for this one is honest communication.

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