[unknown1300]

My partner and I have had the best sex life for the past couple years, and recently he said to me that I haven’t finished while being on top in a while, not because I couldn’t but because we’d change position and I’d finish another way. Now when I’m on top I can’t finish, I think I’m pressuring myself, any tips?

[Tyler]

Why don't you try to do a bit more fourplay then get own top

[Wednesday L.F.]

Depending on your gender, sex toys can help. A vibrating **** ring, for example, can provide additional stimulation that can help you finish during intercourse if that’s what you want.

[Bigtitlegirl40]

I can find with a toy sometime

[MrMr]

I find reverse cowgirl is good for some women to orgasm. When I'm sitting slightly reclined and my legs wider open allows the woman to ride the full length of me compared to her just on top

[MeLuvCookies]

That used to be my most reliable way to make my wife orgasm for a long time. She would almost instantly get really into the action and kind of take over and go for it when on top. I think it was because her going on top made her be in control of the action and almost forced her to focus on what she was doing and not be able to just be checked out and then she would remember oh yeah sex feels good and go for her pleasure which I love. We would move the bed like two feet from the wall when doing it like this.

Last time she tried getting on top she said it felt too deep now and hurt so she doesn't want to get on top anymore. I'm kind of missing it and a little panicked that one of my best options and tools for satisfying her has been taken off the table.