Hi all and I hope this finds you all well. I'm an elderly guy, very happily married for over 50 years. Our sex life has been great but I have alwaws had a fascination with masturbation. Many years ago I bought my wife a (very early model) vibrator so that she could 'finish' after our lovemaking. It worked a treat and she adapted to it like a duck to water.
There came a time in our life though when I needed to work late into the night to get things done for our new business and my wife would go to bed much earlier. I guess we were in our late 30's at the time and our sex life was confined to early mornings, to the disapproval of my wife.
One night, about 20 mins after she went to bed I went up the hallway to ask her a question before she went to sleep. The bedroom door was open about 6 inches and as I was about to speak I heard the distinctive sound of the vibrator being pressed against her body (it was quite loud compared to modern ones). I was shocked at first but as I listened to it whirring away, and the wonderful sounds she was quietly making, I became very horny.
I couldn't help myself and began masturbating outside of our bedroom door in the dark. It was a tad risky because our two daughters were asleep in the bedroom opposite. The fact was though, I found the experience one of the most erotic I have ever known, so much so that I repeated the exercise quite often, whenever I could. I'm sure she had no idea that I was listening in and masturbating with her just outside her door. I felt quite guilty at times for, I don't know, breaching her trust or something but I felt compelled to continue because it was so rewarding sensually.
Obviously I stopped doing it once the workload dropped off but now, many years later, maybe 6-8 months ago I was watching the footy and went to the bedroom door to ask if the sound was bothering her. To my surprise she was masturbating on the bed with the bedside light on and as happened years before I couldn't help myself and masturbated while watching.
About 2 months ago, after we had sex one morning (mutual masturbation) I told her about what had happened both years ago and more recently and how much I loved the experience. Unfortunately she didn't take it at all well. I was shocked at her response because should the roles have reversed, I'm certain that I'd have found it both highly erotic and flattering. The reality is that now she is refusing my approaches for lovemaking. I have no idea what to do next and we are at an age where time is pretty important. Any ideas? Thanks.
There came a time in our life though when I needed to work late into the night to get things done for our new business and my wife would go to bed much earlier. I guess we were in our late 30's at the time and our sex life was confined to early mornings, to the disapproval of my wife.
One night, about 20 mins after she went to bed I went up the hallway to ask her a question before she went to sleep. The bedroom door was open about 6 inches and as I was about to speak I heard the distinctive sound of the vibrator being pressed against her body (it was quite loud compared to modern ones). I was shocked at first but as I listened to it whirring away, and the wonderful sounds she was quietly making, I became very horny.
I couldn't help myself and began masturbating outside of our bedroom door in the dark. It was a tad risky because our two daughters were asleep in the bedroom opposite. The fact was though, I found the experience one of the most erotic I have ever known, so much so that I repeated the exercise quite often, whenever I could. I'm sure she had no idea that I was listening in and masturbating with her just outside her door. I felt quite guilty at times for, I don't know, breaching her trust or something but I felt compelled to continue because it was so rewarding sensually.
Obviously I stopped doing it once the workload dropped off but now, many years later, maybe 6-8 months ago I was watching the footy and went to the bedroom door to ask if the sound was bothering her. To my surprise she was masturbating on the bed with the bedside light on and as happened years before I couldn't help myself and masturbated while watching.
About 2 months ago, after we had sex one morning (mutual masturbation) I told her about what had happened both years ago and more recently and how much I loved the experience. Unfortunately she didn't take it at all well. I was shocked at her response because should the roles have reversed, I'm certain that I'd have found it both highly erotic and flattering. The reality is that now she is refusing my approaches for lovemaking. I have no idea what to do next and we are at an age where time is pretty important. Any ideas? Thanks.
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