[Wednesday L.F.]

Do you ever wonder if your sexual fantasies are "normal?"
We've assembled some of the most commonly reported 'secret' fantasies.
How many make your list? Did we miss any? Tell us in the comments!
Whether you're totally vanilla or a banana split with all the fixin's, we want to know.

[Strega]

I've had a threesome and fivesome and the fantasy was hotter than the reality... LOL. But the idea of bondage and being submissive is one I'd like to explore. And sex with one ex in particular...

[Wednesday L.F.]

I've heard that from many people who had long anticipated threesomes and felt let down after. I'd be curious to hear more if you're comfortable sharing.

[JonnyR]

I've had the old "break up sex" before and for some reason, it's often super hot...and who hasn't fantasized about a co-worker or that special "stranger" at the gym or in the Starbucks line!?

[EmptyNester]

Sex with an ex and public places are my most common

[Alison H.]

Sex in a public place or outdoors is definitely up there. Not necessarily being watched, but just being outside.

[Strega]

Wednesday L.F.

It wasn't that it was a "letdown" exactly, but there is a LOT going on. So you're concentrating on one person, while being aware of what another's doing, and if they're not hitting the spot just right you're trying to move or guide them so they do, while keeping your own pace or rhythm with the other. It's just a lot to focus on, if that makes sense? I dunno, maybe it's because sex and orgasms are so wired into your brain, and your brain is just focusing on too much at once LOL.

I think in the fantasy, you're able to orchestrate everything in your mind so it's perfect and hot. In the reality, it's real people doing whatever they're doing, rhythm-wise and it's not the same. I imagine porn is sort of scripted and choreographed to a degree, so it looks more like the fantasy. Or maybe there needs to be some choreography planned out ahead of time LOL mine were spur of the moment things.

[BiBrad95]

PEGGING is at the top of my list for sure...
Being BISEXUAL I'm so into anything going in my butt... My prostate is super sensitive and the only way I can get off since I have PEYRONIE'S and also on the very small size...
My other top fantasy is creampie clean up...

[MrMr]

Sex in a public place or outdoors is definitely up there. Not necessarily being watched, but just being outside.

Someone asking to watch you have sex is really hot.

[ttloveyou]

3P sex is exciting, having sex with someone else's wife is the most exciting

[isomrat]

When people "fantasize," they are essentially imagining scenarios or situations that are not real, often involving desires, aspirations, or experiences they wish were true, which can range from achieving great success, having a perfect relationship, experiencing extraordinary abilities, or simply escaping from daily life through a vivid mental image; essentially, it's daydreaming about things we want or find exciting, whether realistic or completely fantastical.?