[Sugarsugar]

I wish that was the case! Unfortunately as far as I know he hasn’t met with any specialists and nothing has changed with us. I’ve decided to stop asking or pushing. I’ve also been sort of avoiding sex so- not good all around. I guess he isn’t in a place to get past ego or embarrassment to see a specialist so if he would rather continue with cum-less sex- that’s his fault in my mind. Not sure where to go from here….

[JonnyR]

Oh shoot! That's def not what I want to hear!

I was listening to a podcast today with a urologist, and he was talking about all sorts of problems and solutions and the types of patients he sees, and that how usually anyone under 40 with some type of "dysfunction" is more psychological than physical, and he had some really good tips for that.

Maybe it would be helpful if you sent him a podcast or article on the topic from a really good doctor who is well-spoken, approachable, and down to earth and makes him feel comfortable with evren being open to the possibility of it all.

I don't think the best course of action is giving up, blaming or frustration...no problem ever was solved through ignoring it!