[A Dying Breed]

I have noticed that (excuse the following graphic descriptions) woman who become very lubricated enjoy sex that is fast, hard, and sometimes deep. Woman who only become moderately lubricated generally like slower, gentler sex (and can feel when a man comes), and I think this is exactly because the first really do feel less than the second. This sucks because I like slow, gentle sex, and I notice the drop in excitement in my girlfriend when I slow down, and in turn this makes me unhappy...

But one last point: although the sex with less lubricated woman was more intense, and more to my liking, I see psychological similarities, and draw the correlation that those who overlubricate are in fact at ease with their sexuality and in general are healthy individuals.

Double edged issue indeed.

Also, all women are different. Just because a girl can get very wet doesnt mean she feels less, and vice versa. It's a different experience for every single woman in the universe, and I dont think it's right to stereotype a girl
by saying she is less at ease sexually or is less healthy because she doesnt have as much natural lubricant. Every woman's body is different, as is her mind. Honestly, all similarities between women are purely coincidental, and the same can be said for men.

That is the beauty of nature and genes. No matter how two people can seem alike, no matter what, they are still entirely different.

[Anon_1990]

You can't get too wet! ;-)

[vikingfan23]

Yep same here!! I have to wear panty liners constantly or my panties are soaked. It's not always a blessing in the sex department either, sometimes it seems if I'm really really wet, I can't feel him sliding in and out. There's just too much wetness and not enough friction, and my hubby is huge so it's not a size issue.

[maldragon7]

I didnt realize so many other women have the same problem... luckily for most of you its not much of a problem in your sex lives unfortuanly for me my guy is kinda grossed out by it.. he doesnt mind it when were having intercouse but he wont do oral on me because he thinks that its too wet.... what can i do to get him to just understand and accept it

[Anon_1990]

Is he mad!

[angied]

lucky you

[goose]

My wife gets very wet. It is a huge turn on for me. The wetter the better and it tells me she is having a good time. It's all good!

[PrivatelySeductive]

Too Wet??

I have the same issue, for years, I thought I was somehow the only one. I personally don't mind it usually, except when it happens at not such great times. ie: had lunch w/friend (YES JUST FRIENDS), whom happens to be an ex-bf, and I have been in this crazy sex mood, (can't seem to get enuff). Anyhow, we were just sitting down in public talking, having lunch, and some "old memories" came to mind (if ya know what I mean!). And all of a sudden my panties were as wet as if I did have an orgasim, WHICH I DID NOT, (not that there would of been anything horrible about that), just wasn't the case! Course I didn't say anything, too embarassed. Anyhow, my past partners, this has never been a problem for them, infact, they enjoy it immensely! They've even commented on it during sex in a positive way. (1 or 2 even thought it was "all them".) They've said how it was such a huge turn on for them. I thought to myself, good, I don't have to work at getting them turned on, just tell them or show them how wet I am, and they're 'ready to go!' LOL For a long time I thought something was wrong with me, until I started reading up on things, asking questions, etc.
For the ladies whom experience the excessive wetness to the point of little to no feeling during sex, I FEEL ur pain(s)! This has happened to me, usually when my partner is able to "last" for quite some time. I've just done the whole towel patting thing, and moved on, so as not to remove all of the natural lubrication. I would just say to those who see this as a "problem": embrace the benefits of it. I mean just think there are unfortunately MANY women whom have the COMPLETE OPPOSITE of our 'issue' (NOT problem), and they're constantly buying lubes, etc., trying to get and/or stay wet! What a workout that must be! I feel bad for them! Then also think about how for most women, as they get up there in their yrs, the natural lubrication can begin to diminish! YIKES!!: However, for us women whom have the issue of being 'too wet', I imagine dryness in our later yrs., won't be a issue for us! So embrace it, enjoy it, and us it to your benefit!

[crissy]

My man actually likes it. His last relationship she could not stay
wet and it was very frustrating for him. So he has said it turns
him on how easily I get wet because he know Im turned on.

[jessemartin]

Finally someone brave enuf to come out and say what it really boils down to and that's " Hello" of course guys want you tight and a bit on the moist side. Difference with moist and wetness is the obvious we can't feel anything when we have ourselves inside you when your wet. When its a bit tighter and more dry we can actually feel something down there . My GF has the same problem and we use this cream called " china tight" it comes in a small tube online or random sex shops. Works magc. Hope that helped