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  • sparkbark
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    • Jul 2008
    • 6

    Uh... I can't tell if he is circumsized

    So I have a pretty question, and I don't want to ask my BF straight out because I will sound like an idiot, but... I can't tell if he is circumsized or not. I have been with 2 men before, one was circumsized and the other not, but those were obvious clear cut cases. With my current BF it sort of seems "in between"... so I don't know which it is. It doesn't really matter but I am really curious to know.

    Basically, when he is flaccid a bit of skin covers the head but you can still see most of the head (although when it's cold it retreats further back...), it doesn't cover it let along hang off the end a little like my last BF's did. When he is erect it looks just like an uncircumsized penis but the skin is still kind of loose and the loose skin can be brought up to the head while masturbating him. I really don't know if he has a loose circumcision or if he is uncircumsized with a naturally short foreskin. Is there any way to tell without asking him and sounding clueless?
  • sparkbark
    Banned
    • Jul 2008
    • 6

    Sorry, I meant "pretty question" but I can't find a button to edit this post.

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    • sparkbark
      Banned
      • Jul 2008
      • 6

      Uhh ok so there's a filter for the word "s*tu*pid" on here I guess. Sorry.

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      • LoverofSEX
        Member
        • Jul 2008
        • 24

        Sounds like he is un-cut but has a short foreskin, so when he gets an erection the foreskin sort of retracts but in reality doesn't. If he is cut like I am he will not have a foreskin.

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        • sparkbark
          Banned
          • Jul 2008
          • 6

          I do know that it is possible to have a loose circumsision so that's what confused me. To describe it a little better, when he is flaccid under normal circumstances most of the head is visible, but the part where it meets the shaft is covered by skin. When he is erect it looks as if there is no loose skin at all but when I move my hand up and down I can feel the skin is a little loose and can bring just a small bit of it up to cover where the head meets the shaft. Does that make sense?

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          • LoverofSEX
            Member
            • Jul 2008
            • 24

            It's possible he is cut and there is still enough skin on his member that would allow it to still cover the head of his erect penis.

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              He is uncut.

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              • anonymouswhitefemale
                Veteran Member
                • Sep 2007
                • 1343

                I'd say that if his head isn't covered in a flaccid state, that he is circumcised. I've never heard of natural penises like that.

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                • sparkbark
                  Banned
                  • Jul 2008
                  • 6

                  Well, sounds like there is no consesnsus here either. Maybe it is a less dumb question than I thought? I still would feel so silly asking him but I am just very curious because I've never before seen a penis where I couldn't tell if it was cut.

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                  • LoverofSEX
                    Member
                    • Jul 2008
                    • 24

                    Just tell him you have a very interesting penis? (I never call it that) have you been circumcised? Every body on the group I'm on wants to know..... (just kidding on the last part)

                    That brings up a different question I have often wondered what you gals think about when the topic comes up in a sermon??

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