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He doesnt smoke, he barely drinks, he plays football 3 days a week and tennis occasionally! Pah
My friends keep saying to just 'jump on him' and 'tease him' but it wouldnt work, unless he even shows the slightest interest i just see it as wasted effort, if he doesnt want to...he doesnt want to simple as
Ive never asked for him to go down on me or to finger me, ever! All it takes is a bit of heated kissing and im ready to go. I dont necessarily need foreplay to get things going.
I dont want to dump him at all especially as it could be a phase and besides from the fact that i love him (naww puppy love...mushy mushy *pukes* yeahhh i get it
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I might secretly slip him some viagra...'would you like a drink? *plonk*' cenario...
ok thats a joke but now the ideas there...muahaha
See! before him id only ever kissed a boy, now he's taken my innocence and wont give me any im absolutely gagging! It's like being reallllly hungry and someone saying 'You can only have one bite of my sticky toffee pudding'...one bite of sticky toffee pudding is impossible!!!
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haha, no, no shame at all.......
Tell him to slow down on his sports, he's worn out and therefore, not giving you any....
That won't happen though, right?
Viagra, well that's a thought....
I liked the one where someone said, yeah, give him the bj, but only partiually, tease but i'd add in then lift your skirt up on jump on their chair on him, what's he going to do?
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I don't know much about the drug and correct me if I'm wrong but it wouldn't have any affect on him wanting sex or having any interest in it, it would just give him an erection correct? So really it wouldn't help you any.
Besides I'd be careful with that idea, some people might really get offended if you slip them something without their knowledge.There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.Comment
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Well, I suppose technically weed can make you lazy, and as generally the guy exerts the most effort, it's probably better for the woman... And with mdma/ecstacy there's a possibility of mild sexual dysfunction for the man, such as taking ages to come, but then at least you have all the added energy.Comment
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My sex life is back!!!!!
WOOO WOOOOO
It's amazing what confidence can do especially when you feel sexy
cute matching see-through undies! plus he had to help me pick an outfit for a party tomorrow so slowly undressing certainly awoke his mind without being too obvious
And this line worked wonders 'I cant undo this one by myself' hehehe
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Ah so you took the bull by the horns so to speak...
Good for you...
Seems that he gets to see that dress again then....
CW
Australian sense of humor to your comment, i agree with Fallen1 on that one and in general try everything anyway first.Viagra, well that's a thought....
I guess that's why I thought of it to start with... When someone says their guy is "lazy" i always think drugs, or too much work/sport going on, glad you clarified that it does.Anon
Well, I suppose technically weed can make you lazy, and as generally the guy exerts the most effort, it's probably better for the woman... And with mdma/ecstacy there's a possibility of mild sexual dysfunction for the man, such as taking ages to come, but then at least you have all the added energy.
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