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  • dawn2
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    • Jun 2008
    • 53

    arousal, how do you know you are (females)

    sorry for the question, or so it may seem to most of you but i really have no idea if and when or what it is, i have bought boks to try and fix other problems but they make the assumption that you know when you are and to just wiat til your fullly aroused, weeeeeeeeeelllll erm sorry but how about spelling it out to thickies like me then as i dont have a clue what it is.
  • Sweetness182
    Member
    • Jul 2008
    • 32

    Are you saying you don't know when you are horny?

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    • dawn2
      Member
      • Jun 2008
      • 53

      yep
      exactly that whatever horny actually is

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      • maz33
        Veteran Member
        • Jul 2008
        • 255

        [QUOTE=dawn2;46254]sorry for the question, or so it may seem to most of you but i really have no idea if and when or what it is, i have bought boks to try and fix other problems but they make the assumption that you know when you are and to just wiat til your fullly aroused, weeeeeeeeeelllll erm sorry but how about spelling it out to thickies like me then as i dont have a clue what it is.[/QUOTE


        Well everyone is different obviously but generally the following are my own indicators of arousal: feeling hot and flushed with butterflies and breathlessness, light-headed (on the brink of orgasm), feeling more 'lubricated' than usual etc.

        Hope this helps, maybe others will come up with a completely different set of indicators.

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        • dawn2
          Member
          • Jun 2008
          • 53

          Well everyone is different obviously but generally the following are my own indicators of arousal: feeling hot and flushed with butterflies and breathlessness, light-headed (on the brink of orgasm), feeling more 'lubricated' than usual etc.

          Hope this helps, maybe others will come up with a completely different set of indicators.[/QUOTE]


          well i thought the feeling hot was from the effort being applied to do it, like an excise session, i dotn get any of the other things at all tho

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          • maz33
            Veteran Member
            • Jul 2008
            • 255

            When you're sexually aroused the blood rushes to your head which can make some people feel hot and sweaty even before they have exerted any effort!

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            • dawn2
              Member
              • Jun 2008
              • 53

              oh ok then i dont get that at all

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              • dawn2
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                • Jun 2008
                • 53

                so how would i know if i was aroused then if i dont get that

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                • Sweetness182
                  Member
                  • Jul 2008
                  • 32

                  I get horny alot but have no idea how to explain it.

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                  Obviously the lubricatedness, and butterflies for lack of a better word...
                  Really all I can say, without meaning to sound too crude, is that I just feel an anticipation and need for my boyfriend to be deep inside me.

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                  • dawn2
                    Member
                    • Jun 2008
                    • 53

                    oh i still dont understand then

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