[mahalia]

sometimes when making love with ma boyfriend i release some water, but i know its not pee, coz it is not like i would have been pressed to pee or anything just before sex. i do not even feel it, ma boyfriend says he does, do u ladies ever experience this? should i be seeing ma gynaecologist over it?

[Fallen1]

There's nothing wrong with you. Do a search for threads on female ejaculate.

[Sweet Lady]

There's nothing wrong with you. Do a search for threads on female ejaculate.

I want to believe that this equates to a mans semen during foreplay or when he is turned on. Tell bf to enjoy you and that all juices from within you are for his comfort and enjoyment!!!!!

[mahalia]

thank u, have checked it out. think i still need to see ma gynae tho at ma boyfriends insistence. this is affectin our sex life, i spend this past weekend with him(we don't stay together) and we had sex just once. he only just brought this up afta we made love and well i suppose i had ejaculated as it is to be...that was wee hours of sat, then no shaggin till sunday when i was packin and he was getin ready to drop at home. so while sittin in bed i ask him 'babe wanna make love?' then he said NO!, today he was askin me if i've seen ma gynae n i told him not yet,( ma nxt apntment is in 3weeks). but then i just got to askin him if this is the reason he aint too keen on sex and he said yes...so yeah i got a rel prblm here! gotta see the doc veri soon

[owlhunter]

Don't Always Trust authority!

My lady suirts all the time. It is something we learned slowly together. I love it, but she says I'm sick :-)

Becareful with youre gyny person. Many do not accept squirting as a fact. Even dear old Dr. Ruth does ot accept it as fact. But it is a fact. Many time my lady and I have ended up in a soaked bed. We keep towels by the bed now.

What you are going is a very natual thing. It is just that most women do not "let it happen" becuase the fear it is pee. It is not pee. Absolutely. Anymore than sweat is pee.

So be careful when visitng your doctor. Ask if they accept female ejaculation. As them if THEM personally have any experience with it. You could have a gyny who does not believe/accept and then where are you.

Being able to squirt is great. Don't surpress it. If your boyfriend cannot accept it, well, there you have a problem. How does he feel about sexy during your periods. How does he feel about noice your v****a can make during sex. (They sound like big farts!)

If he can't deal with those, or LEARN to deal with those, then think carefully about this relationship. Hey, he might not like it if you make lots of noise when you have a nice big O.

And if he does not feel comfortable cleaning up your bumb after anal sex that is a little messy, well, then, you have a problem.

After ***l (do the censor words here??) sex, my partner and I clean each other up with the baby wipes. Just like the other was a baby and had a diaper changed. We are lucky that we have a relationship where we can do that, and even laugh as we do.

I he (or you) got really sick andthe other had to care for the other, no matter how messy, can you deal with that. I didn't say "like it" I said deal with it.

Good luck. And be careful with what your gyny says.

[mahalia]

hey owlhunter, thanks...m a veri passionate woman...i just let go and enjoy maself, i guess we got sum issues to talk bout wit ma boyfy. we veri happy together like reli happy, its just that he dont seem veri comfortable bout discussin sex or issues arnd it...so...that's also another thing

[Hystorm]

What you have there is a 'boy' in stead of a 'MAN'!

[mahalia]

oh historm...!

[Sweet Lady]

What you have there is a 'boy' in stead of a 'MAN'!

Agreed 100%.........

[Fire(m)]

Agreed. He is a boy with a small "b" and emphasis on "OY"! You need a man mahalia. A man will be THRILLED that this is happening for you!

Keep up the lovin'!
Cheers.