[azoog]

i've recently found some one that im seriously in love with. and were reaching that time when were about to get physically intimate. now im still a virgin in all retrospects of the word and i dont plan on giving that up just yet. He has made it very clear that he is...ummm for lack of a better word very hungry lol and i would like to return the favor. the problem is i have absolutely no clue as to what i'm supposed to do down there. are there any tips on HOW to give head! PLEASE HELP!!

[Fallen1]

Search the threads here for "oral". There have been quite a few. You will find some good advice.

[damd]

Virgin umm ok, yeah there are loads of threads about oral. A few about virginity as well.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

azoog
now im still a virgin in all retrospects of the word and i dont plan on giving that up just yet.

and I would like to return the favor.

What favor? Why do you owe anything anyway?

[rcoreyus]

If you are not too shy, renting (or viewing on line) a porn flick would give the general idea. Something amateur and tame. I think it is easier to see than to understand from a written description.

Good luck and have fun.

[damd]

What favor? Why do you owe anything anyway?

i've recently found some one that im seriously in love with. and were reaching that time when were about to get physically intimate. now im still a virgin in all retrospects of the word and i dont plan on giving that up just yet. He has made it very clear that he is...ummm for lack of a better word very hungry lol and i would like to return the favor. the problem is i have absolutely no clue as to what i'm supposed to do down there. are there any tips on HOW to give head! PLEASE HELP!!

Return oral.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Return oral.

The excitement of youth and wanting to give back and learning

Well, that's always positive in a relationship, i recall someone once stating " own it", as the key to giving the best.

CW

[azoog]

lol. I'll definently own it once i get the hang of it but im a bit imtimidated. my bf has past lovers in which they probably can do alot more than i can. He's sensitive enough to never openly speak about thier performance or compare me to them. and if i know him well enough ..he would probably still tell me i'm good even if i wasn't. i just dont want to end up rubbing him the wrong way....pun not intened lol

[Fire(m)]

Azoog. Just relax and have fun. Part of the joy in this process is in the discovery. Just talk to him and tell him that he needs to tell you what to do. He will. He'll tell you how to make him feel good and you do the same for him.

No need for any elaborate instructions or books or videos. Just relax and don't worry about it. Communicate with eachother and everything will be great.

Even though he has presumably been with other women, each woman is different. When it comes to your body, he probably knows "where it is" and "approximately what to do with it" and that's about it. Every woman is different in what they prefer...etc. Guys are the same.

Help him fine tune your pleasure and have him commit to do the same. You'll be great! All it takes to be great is the desire and the communication.

Cheers.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Fire(m)
All it takes to be great is the desire and the communication.

I like that. And azzog, then owning it!!

Men are sensative. Be wary of teeth, if you want to use them very lightly as a playful thing but when doing the deed, put your tongue over your bottom teeth, it's actually very comfortable and watch your top teeth.

Use all of your body, rub yourself on him, use your fingers, your tongue, your mouth and if you can remember, lol, use both hand motion and mouth motion at the same time.

And own it.... lol

Own it means, that part belongs to the man that you love, so don't feel shy, intimidated, simply feel the passion for him whilst you are doing what ever you are doing to him.

You will in return, hear him breathe, moan or feel him move, they are the signals to let you know what parts you are doing that he likes the most.

There is way more you could do, like touching him between the groin whilst doing this, other places... There my sweet, me say, you read more threads...

CW