[CHANDLERS WISH]

An interesting question was posed on another thread, so for the purpose of getting different answers, i thought i would start a new one therefore.

Your sexual character.

Why do women like the "cave man" approach, being taken.



As much as why do women like the "sensual" approach, time spent, making love.



And, or, "sexual", fantasy, experimentation, danger, or controlled.


Are you all of the above? Or tend to prefer one style more than the other and do you believe it is in your make-up, stemming from beliefs, or parental teaching, or just who you developed to be through your own passions in life, in-other-words just a passionate person who likes the whole 3 styles of making love.

I guess this is also a question for guys, either for themselves, or what they prefer their woman to be like..

The question posed was in understanding a woman's thoughts and why she may feel one way of the other.

I think it's a valid question and replies may point to a "type" of personality.

CW

[Joy]

hormones

Hey CW,

I think it depends on what levels my hormones are at! I like all of the above but it depends on the day. If the hormones are running high then its mmmmm take me now!

[MissGoddess]

Hah I agree with Joy
The hormones go up, its a "RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW" type of thing, but then again, I do like the slow love making that slowly leads into the 'big deal'. It just makes it more exciting, more desirable and it lasts longer. So personally, as much as I might one day feel the "right here right now" thing, I'm always cool with slowly going into it..
Of course, unless if it's with my ex coming back with a dozen of white roses, the amazing cologne, and that irresistible smile of his.. THEN i'd just shove everything aside, pull him in, and well.. RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW, BABY!! Haha ;]

[[It'll happen.. You just wait and see..]]

And CW, you asked the question, but didn't answer it..
What about yourself?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

MissGodess
And CW, you asked the question, but didn't answer it..
What about yourself?

Mmmm, CW reply? I started this Thread based on a question from someone on the Forum as i am a nice person, doesn't mean i have to reply? Does it? Ok..

Sure, i think that i am expecting anyway nearly 100% to reply with ALL THREE, I like ALL THREE, Horny/sexual/sensual pending on mood.

But, it goes deeper than that i think..

Personally, Horny is just an over and done with excitment, spare of the moment, didn't see it coming, well that's how i would like it ... Or do it to him.

And, then i have to consider, what i will miss out on later that day, so timing is got to be good too.. Hahaha. But, hey, it's all good, if i miss out I'll go for sexual in the morning...

Let's face it, sensual,sexual, lasts longer. So, i am also in a new experimentation stage of my life, being single again and 45, so me wants to find out lots and lots, can't do that over the couch.

So, i as i said, prefer the horny to be the spontaneous, get off that computer, cause i'm pushing you onto the desk instead..

How's that for an answer?

CW

[withered_rose]

I think for me it's mostly sensual, i have had my quickies in the back seat of my car or at the bathroom of my grandparents basement, and now i like it long and slow lots of sensual touching, but between my finance and I it can be anything really, he knows most of the time that i like it to be very sensual but there are times that its completely spontaneous and out of no where, which sometimes is the best. so i guess you could say it really depends on how much time is between the love making, if its only a couple of days its sensual but if its a week or more its the "take me right here right now"

[shweedart]

I like the 'take me now' approach but for it to last a looong time...so theres not really much 'now' about it if that makes any sort of sense?

[SorridLives]

our sexual character.

Why do women like the "cave man" approach, being taken.

Got me. Sometimes I guess I like it. Sometimes women like men taking the lead....if they are capable leaders. I also like to take the lead myself...then I ensure I get to do what I want, if he goes along with it.



As much as why do women like the "sensual" approach, time spent, making love.

I like sensual but I do like a lot of passion and aggressive sex too.



And, or, "sexual", fantasy, experimentation, danger, or controlled.

I can role play and be a different person for my dh. I experiment quite a bit within what we think is sexy. No danger...but I think my dh likes a little naughtiness in things like doing it or sexual things while on the phone! LOL

[Phoebee]

What really turns me on is when he dusts, picks up the house and changes the sheets. Maybe lights a few candles and has a bath ready for me! I know how sad this probably sounds but... Whew! When I come home and the house is all perfect! Look out!

If the house is a disaster thats the "anti Viagra" for me...

;-)

[owlhunter]

Quote: And, then i have to consider, what i will miss out on later that day, so timing is got to be good too.. Hahaha. But, hey, it's all good, if i miss out I'll go for sexual in the morning... End Quote.

Is there a law somewhere I don't know about that says you can only do it once a day? Boy, am I in trouble. My lady and I like to take a "nap" about 3/4 pm. And then, well ..... Then we are all ready for dinner when we get up, can start having a little wine, and then .... Are we doing something illegal?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Quote: And, then i have to consider, what i will miss out on later that day, so timing is got to be good too.. Hahaha. But, hey, it's all good, if i miss out I'll go for sexual in the morning... End Quote.

Is there a law somewhere I don't know about that says you can only do it once a day? Boy, am I in trouble. My lady and I like to take a "nap" about 3/4 pm. And then, well ..... Then we are all ready for dinner when we get up, can start having a little wine, and then .... Are we doing something illegal?

Lol, god no... In-fact the more the merrier I'm talking "later that day" verses that night... Seems we can go like ever ready batteries (haha) but mean need time before they can commense again, what can i say?

End of quote...

Now on your lady and you liking to nap and then doing, i couldn't lay next to him and try to sleep, i'd be doing and then napping ..

However, i commend you on a little dinner, a little wine, and off you go all over again.

Think your doing a very "illegal" thing, it's called upsetting those whom are not able to obtain such 3 times a day....