[Hystorm]

Not to mention......if your husband is all for MFM, then its a grand possibility your husband is a closet homo, or Bi.

[funlovinglady]

Not to mention......if your husband is all for MFM, then its a grand possibility your husband is a closet homo, or Bi.

Hystorm,

Just because a man is willing to share his woman with another man does not mean he is gay or a closet homo as you put it. He may just be showing how deep his love is by giving her one of her biggest fantasies of the joy of two men at the same time.

Would your wife be a closet homo if she gave you the pleasure of 2 woman at the same time I wonder?

Some people are more secure in their own skin than others and trully enjoy seeing their partner getting satisfaction from a third party.

[Guest]

the boss is a bad idea, the threesome however is not too terribly bad, you need to know that neither one of you will become attached to the third person, speaking from experience in being the other person brought into the bedroom, in all reality it's up to the two of you. it's what ever you both feel you should do.

Withered_rose,

I am impressed. I thought I was pretty adventurous, but a threesome?

I know I am snoopy but can you tell more, please?

I would love to hear how you got into such a situation, what happened, how did you feel about it etc…..

Hi, I am a happily married woman of 22 years. Recently my boss, who up to this point has been a friend, has declared he wants more. The problem is I find him very attractive and, my husband and I being adventuresome, have wondered about the complications and morals of a threesome. Any advice

Sorry drydvale,

I got carried away with some posts I read so forgot to answer you.

Please, please, please : do NOT go that path. You will just end up loosing your job!

Being adventuresome is healthy. If you both feel your marriage can survice other persons involved, that is fine too but NOT with your boss!

Hope you take the right decision there little one.

[owlhunter]

Hystorm,
Just because a man is willing to share his woman with another man does not mean he is gay or a closet homo as you put it. He may just be showing how deep his love is by giving her one of her biggest fantasies of the joy of two men at the same time.

Don't you realise that many of the fantasies that people have are NOT things they would really like to have happen. They just want them as fantasies.

This subject is a very dangerous one, very.

Has anyone out there ever had a sucessful threesome? I mean, when you are in an established relationship and then brought in another person for sex.

If so I'd be very interested to hear about it. I would guess the chances of "success"are VERY slim. Very.

[funlovinglady]

Don't you realise that many of the fantasies that people have are NOT things they would really like to have happen. They just want them as fantasies.

This subject is a very dangerous one, very.

Has anyone out there ever had a sucessful threesome? I mean, when you are in an established relationship and then brought in another person for sex.

If so I'd be very interested to hear about it. I would guess the chances of "success"are VERY slim. Very.

Of course I realise that some fantasies should stay just that, but there are people out there who trully enjoy this type of intimacy, myself included.

My husband and I have had threesomes regularly for the past 4 years with a special partner and its not about love its about having a good time with people you enjoy the company of.

I will say that you must be sure it is something you and your partner want to do together and if anyone is feeling jealous then DONT DO IT.

[Joy]

I see nothing wrong morally with the idea of you, hubby and a third party to each their own. I will point this out you said your boss is attractive someone you spend everyday with possibly working later on some occassions. Even if your husband and you are a non jealous type of couple i think afterwards your husband would always wonder.

How would you feel if it was a female that worked with your husband? Would you be able to handle him going off working side by side with the thrid party that he found attractive. Would you wonder if they were building a strong emotional bond that you were not part of because you were not their to share in their day.

Its one thing when the thrid party is someone you guys don't have to see again but i think its a whole other ball game when its someone regardless of how it turns out you are forced to see everyday.

[Uneeklyme]

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Has anyone out there ever had a sucessful threesome? I mean, when you are in an established relationship and then brought in another person for sex.
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Yes **raises hand** In my situation it just seemed to make our relationship stronger. We were forced to communicate openly with each other. We followed a set of "rules" agreed upon by all parties before we ever had sex with a third or occasionally the thirds spouse too. IMO, it enhanced our sex life. Long story but for us it was an incredible experience (more than once) and very worthwile.

having said that tho threesomes are dangerous in a relationship. Many people tend to overlook that its not just about the couple that is inviting the third in. The third has thoughts and feelings on it as well. They may fall for one or the other of the partners or want more from the both of them. Co workers are a really bad idea. It gives to much leverage to the partner and coworker. It can leave one partner feeling jealous, suspicious or left out which causes problems and doing the boss... what if he thinks you suck in the sack and just cant face you in the morning so he gives you a pink slip instead of a good morning kiss. Even worse than the average coworker.

[owlhunter]

Uneeklyme,

Very interesting. I'm interested to here experiences of people who have a positive benefits from threesomes.

I know that no way could I accept another man in my relationship. Never. Another woman, maybe, but only if it was for the pleasure of my partner, never me. My partner does not want this so I don't even think about it. Only a very low l;evel thought anyway.

Back to original subject of thread. NO NOT even consider doing something involving your boss. Oh my God. No, never ever. I'm not passing moral advice, just practical advise.

Please don't do it.

[Larry]

Of course I realise that some fantasies should stay just that, but there are people out there who trully enjoy this type of intimacy, myself included.

My husband and I have had threesomes regularly for the past 4 years with a special partner and its not about love its about having a good time with people you enjoy the company of.

I will say that you must be sure it is something you and your partner want to do together and if anyone is feeling jealous then DONT DO IT.

You hit the nail on the head, threesomes are not for everyone. Don't judge us folks that enjoy the experience. My wife and I have been sharing with our friends for over 25 years, we have had several MMF threesomes, we have tried FMF threesomes but none of us feel comfortable with them. One guy trying to keep up with 2 women doesn’t work very well, but 2 guys can keep 1 woman going for a long time.

[nightqueen]

The boss is a friend who says he now wants more, and he knows you're a married woman?? What kind of friend is he?? Forget this.