[sierrawas]

Well it has been over two weeks since I've last spoken to him on the telephone, and while I was on Holiday I have not called him nor has he called me as well. I know that there is someone out there waiting for me, I just have to make myself known.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well it has been over two weeks since I've last spoken to him on the telephone, and while I was on Holiday I have not called him nor has he called me as well. I know that there is someone out there waiting for me, I just have to make myself known.

Well, i for one are pleased... You weren't willing to give up 5 years of celibicy for a man whom purely just wanted to be the "first" good for you and that's obvious if he hasn't texted or called you either... The chase, he knew was over.

Off course there is someone waiting for you and for me

Like you, we really do just have to get out there and mingle in circles, places, in order to be found.

Sitting at home night after night won't get you anywhere....

Think of hobbies even that you like and join a group and get out with your friends you haven't seen for a while.. Just do it...

He is there...

Glad you came back and told us.


CW

[curious21]

I'm a 21 yr. old virgin. I'm not going to have sex till marrige. Sometimes it's hard. You can always masterbait. Then if you ever marry this man it will be special. I think kissing is ok. But, If he really loves you, he will wait. If he get's what he want's, what will want to marry you for. But then again, that's just my point of view. Good Luck.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Anything worth while in life, in beliefs, in my opinion is hard.

Kissing only - is a way to ensure safety, that you don't take other steps.

But, I am not sure that a man ( if not a Virgin, or even if is) would be happy and content and wait and marry that women. In the olden days maybe but intimacy is very important in a relationship - Passion.

I think you have to think outside the square more and off course that's only my opinion...

I think that you have to look at other things that may be intimate and experimental, within a strong and bonded relationship, not at the beginning but if you don't explore a bit, you will never know if you can be totally intimate. You may marry for - in-stance and it is then purely sex, because the other party doesn't like certain things of intimacy at all, full stop.

Then you realise and deside that you do and you are sexual, now that you are married and have experienced it and left wondering if this is your life, in/out, roll over that's it.

Trust is highly important.

Virginity till marriage beautiful, if that is what you want to do, good for you.

But, have a think about those remarks because I have seen it here so many times.

We were virgins, and she hates, or he hates and I don't and ahhh and what do I do, how can I solve this, I love him/her but, I can't live like this...etc.

CW