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Female ejaculation is possible! Absolutely
Hi,
As I have been able to ejaculate for a few years now, I would like to add following advice.
First of all check with your partner how he feels about this, as in my experience most men find it messy, weird, dirty whatever.
Be confident it is NOT pee.
I had the same apprehension and used to run off to the toilet on “le moment supreme”! But I learned that even with an empty blather one can ejaculate without any problem.
As how to do it; try to concentrate on what you are doing when you orgasm, you will find out that you are contracting your pelvic muscles and sort off keep the whole thing inside you (very difficult to explain).
Now the only thing you have to do is expulse when you orgasm, a little bit like you were peeing or giving birth. That is the only way I can really describe the difference: expulsion iso inhalation!
Once you get the hang of it, you will find yourself ejaculating most of the time.
Now the good news is you can train yourself (eventually) to not ejaculate by concentrating on contracting your muscles rather then expulsing.
I would certainly recommend every woman to try it (at least under the right circumstances). For me it feels like an orgasm after an orgasm, double fun for the same effort! LOLComment
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Agreed. This is something that my wife has done occasionally in the past. In her case, there has to be something I'm doing that is making this type of orgasm happen. Go to the bathroom and pee before you do this. Then when you do it and you feel the urgency to pee, just keep going. You will not regret it. It is definitely not pee.
When my wife did this the first time, her whole body was shaking it was so awesome. She was having massive orgasmic spasms...much more and much more different than "normal".
The apprehension of this is sort of like when I was younger and began masturbating. I would always stop before I had a full "O". It felt great so I would stop. I probably stopped 1,000 times before the first time I went through with it. I thought I was going to have a heart attack if I continued. Don't worry you only feel like you have to pee! Hahahahaha! Just relax and have fun with it. Let your mind be free and don't worry about anything...you'll be ok and will have a great time.
Cheers.Comment
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i will agree with that...
i have ejaculated with sex and it is a sensation to push...not pee. and you wont pee. Its a release that is very erotic and both enjoy it cause its very wet and stimulating. When a woman experiences it for the first time, you will want to do it again and again. But, it is alot of fluid, so it is messy but fun. i remeber when i first had that, and i was so turned on, we went for hours. Try just pushing when that feeling comes on..... and it will be amazing.Comment
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Since my marriage a few years ago I have had some pelvic thrusting orgasms, especially when my husband penetrates me orally while I stimulate my clitoris. Or while he's working a vibrator and sucking my clit. But through all this I have never experienced ejaculation. This is something my husband says he would like to experience with me, but I have not been able to reward him. Do most women have this capability or just a lucky few? I've even heard that some women can ejaculate aka squirt only when they want to. Is that even possible to control something like this? Any pointers, instructions or advice would be welcomed.When experimenting with sex all methods are best.Comment
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My report is... I never kiss and tell or ejaculate (it seems) I dunno... I'm wondering if this is worth it. We rented a DVD with women shooting streams of? Like 10 ft. This seems like "Clean up on Isle 3" more then its does additional fun with Orgasm to me..."Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got." ~ Janis JoplinComment
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I can agree with the "never kiss and tell" if that's your wish but from what I've read it would be nice to experience an ejaculation and then make up my mind if it's worth it. I've yet to read or hear about a woman who doesn't like it, even though I don't know any women personally who have that capability. For that matter I don't think I've heard anyone mention it being a guy turn-off either.When experimenting with sex all methods are best.Comment
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It is a bit embarrassing but it may help others out there...
The first time it happened I was sooooo sooooo ashamed... This hot liquid does sort of come out with a lot of energy... I have no idea how much but apparently it feels heavenly for the man if he is inside you... (This is what I have been told, obviously by someone of the opposite sex...
I do not know how it happens but I believe it is just the ability to be relaxed enough and let go... I am not sure it is something all women can do...
I mean, I have a girlfriend that swears she can have multiple orgasms one after an other over and over and over again... I have not experienced that.
I get aroused witht he right partner and I can only achieve one orgasm and the liquid just happens...
We are all different. I mean, it is very important to me to feel completely accepted. The good stuff and the flawed stuff. Anyway... Just an honest opinion.Comment
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