[buck]

Word Of Advice.. If Ur A Young Chick.... And Ur Getting With A Guy 10 Yrs. Senior, He Is Taking Advantage Of You. Like A Little Toy. He's Already Been Round The Yard A Couple Times.. So He Knows How U Will React.. What Buttons To Push.. What Turns You On. He Is A Sexual Predator. I Say You Go Back To Being An Abstainer And Stay Away From This Mofo. - Sincerely, Buck. - Don't Get Mad.. I Aint Tryin To Be Catty Or Whatever. I Am Just Being Real With You. I Tell It Like It Is, Girl. Best Of Luck. Oh Yeah --
The First Sign Was That He Wanted To Take Ur Virginity And He Argued With You About It. I'm Sorry But, If He Rrreeaaaalllllly Loved You. There Would Be No Argument. Also, I Think That He Has Other Relationships On The Side.. Maybe A Wife And Some Kids.. And That Is Why He Is Not Talking About Marraige. Trust Me On This One.. This Guy Is Scum. Jump Out Of This Relationship While U Still Got Yah Stamina. This Guy's A Real Creep. My Mom's A Probation Officer.. I Know Bout This Shiggity!!!!!!! This Guy Is Shwagger Than A Bag Of Some Of That Bobby Brown.

[Richard S]

Not sure I agree with Buck, but definitely protect your son. Either the guy is interested in forming a "blended family" or he's not. Marriage is basically a social and legal construct designed to protect a family's property. It is an interesting point that he's shying away from marriage.

You have a right to know what's really going on with him regarding this. The fact that there are kids in the picture raises the stakes.