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    What lube to buy?


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    Hey everyone

    Ok me and my girlfriend have been experimenting anal for quite a while now.. I have alot of buttplay with her, and she enjoys it (not as much as vaginal pleasure obviously).. but she does enjoy it, and she really wants to try full frontal anal, aswell as fulfilling my dream.. lol

    Ok so we use a lube, called Durex Play.. Its a Silicone based lube which is great fun, but she says that it STINGS her when it goes into her anus.
    Yes I always read that we should be using Water based lubes, but I really can't find any where I live.. The only real lube I can find over here is Durex..

    Usually I'd use my fingers when I'm playing with her butt, but I can't really do that now as the lube stings apparently..

    So.. my questions are..

    1) What lube should I use? What lube do you use when doing/trying anal? Whats it called and how can I purchase it?

    2) Does any other women have the same kind off problem when using silicone lube for anal?

    Thanks
    Last edited by Alison H.; 01-07-2022, 08:19 PM.
  • Guest

    Ok another few things..

    Firstly, is it actually the lube thats stinging her anus? Because.. The only lubes that I have are Durex Tingle, Cherry and Pina Colada.. Keep in mind they all contain fregrance's.. And the Tingle even contains Menthol.. So maybe is it the fregrance's IN the lube that is causing the stinging?

    Also, I've been looking about, and theres a shop in my town, called Ann Summers, I'm sure some of you ladies have heard off this shop before.. Anyways, theres lube in there called 'Slide and Ride'...

    "Enjoy slippery and saucy fun with this fragrance free water based lube."

    Looks pretty promising, and its fregrance free.. What do you's think?

    Thanks again

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    • OG612
      Veteran Member
      • Aug 2008
      • 261

      I'd be willing to bet that it's the perfumes they use that's causing the stinging sensation. I've never had any complaints (other than being too big! ).

      If you have it over there, get Astro Glide. Basically... you'd be able to fit a Cadillac (large sedan) in to a dog house (small space).

      Google it and their website should be the top hit you get if the local retailers don't use it.

      OG
      Through hypnosis, I create confident men and women to succeed in all facets of their lives. This place will soon get very interesting!

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      • LanaBear
        Veteran Member
        • Jul 2009
        • 8373

        Oh - I'd definitely keep the fragranced lubes away from the rear. We use AstroGlide for that. If I need a little in the front, I use KY Silk.

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        • Chantalemma
          Senior Member
          • Apr 2009
          • 171

          I always use KY lube for both anal and vaginal.

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          • Theresa
            Veteran Member
            • Feb 2009
            • 228

            May I ask....what is full frontal anal???

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            • OG612
              Veteran Member
              • Aug 2008
              • 261

              I believe he's talking about going "bareback", or no condom and no lube. Been there, done that... bit of a rough ride.

              OG
              Through hypnosis, I create confident men and women to succeed in all facets of their lives. This place will soon get very interesting!

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              • Ahryin
                Veteran Member
                • Jul 2009
                • 856

                You can order Astro glide online by the way. I'm only adding this because you said you can't find any other lube in your area. Try something sexy planet

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                • Chantalemma
                  Senior Member
                  • Apr 2009
                  • 171

                  Originally posted by OG612
                  I believe he's talking about going "bareback", or no condom and no lube. Been there, done that... bit of a rough ride.

                  OG
                  OUCH!

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                  • LanaBear
                    Veteran Member
                    • Jul 2009
                    • 8373

                    Originally posted by Chantalemma
                    OUCH!
                    UGH - no kidding. Not a fun experience, that is for sure!

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