[LilahX]

btw- 'if you want to give anal sex then you should be open to receiving it as well'.

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Couldn't agree more!!! My philosophy exactly.

[manspoint]

Couldn't agree more!!! My philosophy exactly.

Sorry but I must disagree with that. My wife is not into anal penetration of her and quite frankly it does nothing for me either to. However we both enjoy penetrating me from behind and I have no qualms about that arrangement.

As is stated time and time again, each to his/her own and don't force someone to do something just because you do it or like it.

[Mes T]

I'd have to agree with manspoint...

Although... I think reciprocation is key but it should rather be: "If you want to RECEIVE something, you should be open to GIVING it too." Oral comes to mind. If you love getting oral, you should make an effort to do the same for your partner if he/she wants it.

[LadySue]

I had always fantasised about doing this to my husband. The only problem was how do I ask him about it without him thinking me a little strange. Well I just went for it and said "I would really love to use a dildo on your " and waited with baited breath for his reply. He smiled and winked and said "go for it baby" That was several years ago now and we have had many a fantastic sessions since then. I prefer to use quite a large sized dildo on him as opposed to a conventional strapon. I love the feeling of being in control and hearing his little whimpers and sighs as I enter him. I have learned the art of prostate massage too and have given him many an earth shattering orgasm.

All I can say if any lady would like to do this to their man go for it! (if he is happy about it) the rewards can be fantastic

[WildChild]

Sorry but I must disagree with that. My wife is not into anal penetration of her and quite frankly it does nothing for me either to. However we both enjoy penetrating me from behind and I have no qualms about that arrangement.

As is stated time and time again, each to his/her own and don't force someone to do something just because you do it or like it.

The thing with anal is there are men who really push for it and can be rather brutal with it - we hope without realising it. Getting them to even think about putting the shoe on the other foot so to speak, can at least get them thinking.

[admmck81]

Letting a woman "peg" you and enjoying it does NOT make a man gay. It makes them more open sexually and therefore more fun for you, but not gay. There is a HUGE difference between an open-minded man and a gay man. And that difference is what sex they are attracted to. Case closed! There are also men that think that letting anyone take control during sex makes them less of a man too. Well, those guys have serious issues and need therapy. I have no problem letting a woman take control in bed, and although I am not going to just jump on in and see if my girlfriend wants to "peg" me, I wouldn't refuse the possibility if it's what she wants. I know what pleasure anal play can bring to the table. For me, it would be her intentions. I know there are people that use it as a way to "put you in your place" or humiliate you, an act of subjugation and degradation, or just for thrills, variety, and extra spice. Just because I am open to the possibility doesn't mean I want a man to do it. I am 100% straight, but I don't keep my mind closed to all variations of pleasure possible between me and my woman.

[alterview]

'new package'



my gf received her 'new package' today. we are both excited to give it a try tonight. we just have to be patient and wait for the kiddos to go to bed first.

cheers!

[Stina]

Thanks everyone, for all of your articulate and open-minded posts.

Now, I get to brag to my boyfriend that my forum is far more sexually open than his!

[Guest]

As a guy, I have a few points.

1) If I asked a woman I was with if she like the idea of anal sex and she said anything to the effect of "only if I can do yours" or "how would you like it?", I dropped it.

2) A man can cut down trees without being a logger, but that doesnt mean he wont want to become one. I know liking anal penetration alone doesnt make you gay, it takes attraction to other men, but cutting down and chopping up trees makes you more of a logger than someone who has never touched a saw or an axe.

3) Being penetrated will always be seen as a vunerable and sumissive act for a man. Some women will always see facials as degrading or disrespectful. Some couples will never be swingers because they cant handle the jealousy. It doesnt make a man homophobic or insecure to not want to be sodomized.

[Stina]

As a guy, I have a few points.

1) If I asked a woman I was with if she like the idea of anal sex and she said anything to the effect of "only if I can do yours" or "how would you like it?", I dropped it.

2) A man can cut down trees without being a logger, but that doesnt mean he wont want to become one. I know liking anal penetration alone doesnt make you gay, it takes attraction to other men, but cutting down and chopping up trees makes you more of a logger than someone who has never touched a saw or an axe.

3) Being penetrated will always be seen as a vunerable and sumissive act for a man. Some women will always see facials as degrading or disrespectful. Some couples will never be swingers because they cant handle the jealousy. It doesnt make a man homophobic or insecure to not want to be sodomized.

I think this may have been touched upon already, but gay men do give and receive oral sex too.

Does that mean that a straight man who receives oral sex from his female partner is somehow closer to being gay than a straight man who doesn't receive oral sex?