[Yvee]

A person is gay not because of his actions but because of the feelings behind them. If you are attracted to some one of the same sex then yes you are gay, if not wthen I don't think you can actually BE gay...
And when there aren't actual men involved and its just the man and the woman, how can it be gay?

[GlassDaemon]

No, it does not make a man gay, period. It's because when we think of gay males we think of them having anal sex, so they've become synonyms with each other. It's sad, men can gain a lot of pleasure out of it. My boyfriend likes anal sex... on me... >.> I do not, and I've made it pretty clear to him, though sometimes he pesters me anyway saying 'just to spice it up' and I tell him to flippin bend over and take it. Which he tells me he is not gay. >.> lol, a little controversy among us, is all. He's not even willing to try it, he's a panzy! XD Course I dunno how I'd feel about pegging him. O.o; Anal sex is a scale tipper on what turns me on or not, sometimes I like a toy back there with sex, but it's a very touche subject with me. So I'm not sure how that'd go over with my libido if it was his derriere.

[longshadow]

GlassD-
Ease up a little - you need to break him in slowly..going right to penetration might be a little harsh. It may take a long time. But if you are committed, what's the rush. he could be a project that takes years.
He may feel his butt is unclean and doesn't want you back there.
Take steps, ease in and wait until he is begging.
My partner is finally getting curious about it herself. She has been doing me for a couple years. I have never asked her to take it but now she is coming around on her own.
Time. Time and love.
Not only will it make him a better lover, but it will make you focus on him and what truns him on.
Great week-end projects.

longshadow
I don't mean to sound preachy but the is a dark place and some people are afraid of the dark.

[goose]

First, I don't think it makes you gay! With that said, I think it shows total trust if a man is willing to allow his wife or girlfriend to have anal sex with him. Any man that allows his women to do this is very trusting and secure with there relationship.

[Beckers]

What do you think? Is it "gay" for a man to participate in and enjoy being pegged by his gal?

Lmao this is ridiculous. A man is gay if he is attracted to other men. If men want their g-spot touched by their girlfriend then they are ahead of the game. They aren't afraid of what people would think (how would they find out, anyway?) and they like to go with what feels good, which is what sex is all about!

Any straight male enjoying some anal fun should be proud of it!

[PandaPaws]

Agreed with everyone. It's not what you're doing, but who you're doing it with and who you're attracted to that makes you straight or gay. I would love it if my bf would let me do a little more anal stuff with him. He likes the TINY bit I do to him, so baby steps...