[Butterflylily]

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Hello, i recently joined, i come here seeking help cause im kinda in a tight spot XD.

Without the Boring old stories, ill cut to chase, me and my Boyfriend are both in Love of course thats why were together. Everythings good. Were Virgins.


But recently we had some problems, we went to get some help and they say he might have "Genophobia" (fear of sex and Sexual Contact) idk if he actually does he wont admit it .


Wel anyway, were working things out, no pressure, all of a sudden one day, he brings me a Gift and its one of those Rabbit Vibrators, i heard there really something so i thought wow cool.
Id love to have HIM use it on me, and if he isnt there then i guess its a great way to masturbate while thinking of him.

So we havent tried it, but sooner or later we will, so my um fear i guess is, well ive read in alot of Places all these things about that Rabbit Vibrator.


They say "its the best way to orgasm and to feel good", i mean really? 0_o


Is that true? is that all that sex is about? cause if that is the only thing that will give me Extreme Pleasure then...sex sounds pretty boring to me lol :P XD

So idk :/ idk how my Boyfriend will react to it, he says he doesnt mind using it for me, but the deal is yeah im just scared it might be the "Center" of our Sex INtimacy together etc u know?

umm oh yeah i have something else,Another Question,

is there a difference between Have Intercourse while using Vibrator on Clit and Using a Rabbit Vibrator?????


Like whats there difference if my Boyfriend penetrates me while i use a vibrator on my clit than if i use a Rabbit thing?, Is it the same orgasm? Whats different? Whats Better?


But yeah i need help cause..im starting to feel kinda bad i mean, true using that Rabbit toy will be Heavenly from what ive read, but i want more!!!, i mean !!! my boyfriend is ing hot!!!! hes a Boxer and he makes me soo wet i want him soooo bad and to think id use some thing and idk it ticks me off.


I want him not that stupid thing lol, and yes i know what a Vibrator feels like it gives me best orgasm. Im sure if he uses a Vibrator on me it will be even better cause to have him there with me and seeing him turned on watching etc omg..anyway XD sorry

So ya, im curious about all this Rabbit Vibrator thing..

Whats it Like?
Whats the Difference between Rabbit Vibrator and Intercourse while using Vibrator?
Will it Ruin anything?
If he says its ok with him, so i believe him?

******And is it True its the BEST WAY to Orgasm etc, and its more pleasurable than Oral and anything else Sex Related?******


I mean i want to pleasure him to, it kinda gets to me that i cant do anything :'(, it will be really great at first but having him use the Rabbit Vibrator etc on me everytime over and over idk, it sounds Boring and Depressing right?

And i know his Pleasure will be left out in the Cold and i dont want a stupid Rabbit or some other to ruin those chances between me and him, cause hes sooo...if only youd see him, Im SOOO lucky to have him, he has great Hair, i havent seen his penis, hes measured it and its 7 Inches,
hes a Boxer hes really fit and idk what to do

Can Anyone help me with all this?^^^ im freaking out >.<


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[LanaBear]

I have one, used it once l, hated it and will never use it again. There are better toys out there it that is what the two of you want.

IMO, no orgasm is better than an orgasm with an actual real live penis and the man attached to it. Because sex shouldn't be just about a little rubbing here and a little poking there. It should be about the caresses, the kisses, the little nibbles, the licks, the teasing, the overall sensuality of the act.

Obviously there are some issues that need to be dealt with, but with patience and understanding, hopefully the learning will be easy and enjoyable.

[Butterflylily]

^____^ thanks hehe, well My BB got me that Rabbit thing so i havent tried it yet, but for now its the only way we can be intimate, My BB doesnt mind using it or a Vibrator on me but i feel kinda bad i dont want him to feel unwanted.

But thanks ive read Rabbits are somehow Overrated, is there a Toy better than the Rabbit Thing? something he can use on me atleast till we work his Phobia out?


Oh and..yeah about the Phobia, he was raped. its kinda personal so basicly..any advice on how to work that out for him? do you think Toys could make it worse? :/

[mr.mansview]

lana is right..a man's penis and all the touching and kissing that goes with it should feel better than a vibrator..
p.s...i'll overlook all the slanderous rabbit comments..just don't let it happen again.LOL..

[Butterflylily]

XD dont le it happen again? lol what do you mean by that?

Update! ^^
Instead we tried a Vibrator, only that and well yeah he was nervous, he wasnt even naked idk if he enjoyed it or not, but he told he did and he smiled seeing me so aroused *Blush* hehe.


It was really wonderful, combining Oral and the Vibrator, we did different things, touching etc.
It did feel wow, but idk if i want to be using it over and over idk, it does feel good but it could get kinda boring in time right? :/


But for now its the only, im just trying to help him with his Phobia, we can and we will search more Help etc, any other Advice anyone wants to give me?

Its just i dont want to keep doing this too much it makes me feel Selfish ,
hes never been naked with me, Shirtless, other than that nothing.

[LanaBear]

Is he willing to maybe engage in some mutual masturbation? Does he allow you to ever touch him intimately?

I'm sure it is going to take some time and understanding. Maybe he needs to see the pleasure he can give you like this for a while before he feels okay enough to go a little further himself.