[ltsang]

I'm personally a male. I want to buy some sex toys without my wife knowing that I have one, but I can't. Does anyone know in the state where I live sells sex toys. Has anyone brought a sex toy. If so what kind did you buy. I know that females buy the the dildo.

[WildChild]

What is it you are thinking of buying?
Why don't you want your wife to know?
Some states may not permt shops to sell them. If that is the case you would have to buy online.

[Hopeless Dork]

You should google sex toys in your state, that would be your best bet. But you should think about why you want to get one, and about why you want to hide it from your wife. Maybe she would like a toy of her own... communication sounds lacking in your relationship.

[p3375]

Your profile says you live in Atlanta, GA. For goodness sake, there are about a gazillian sex toy shops in 'hotlanta' - get a phone book, look under the 'lingere' or 'novelty' catagory, find some addresses and go visit them. Oh, and take your wife with you when you go

[jr]

Before I invested in a toy, I'd invest in a book on OPEN COMMUNICATION with your wife.

Toys are cheap, but lying to or keeping things from your wife can cost you everything.

[Lil Bird]

i agree with with jonnie! open communication is the key to a healthy relationship in my opinion. So, whats the big deal about your wife knowing??? This is something that you should definitely talk to your wife about. I know that i would be a tad upset if my boyfriend went out and bought sex toys and tried to hide them from me!!!

[T-man]

I'll tell you why!

I imagine, ladies and gentlemen, that the reason he wants to hide his sex toy from his wife is because it's more than likely an anal toy. Just a guess here, men generally don't need sex toys as quite frankly, the dexterity of the hand simply hasn't been replicated by any toy offering the required motion for a man. That said, he may be interested in a sleeve of some sort for added sensation or a feeling of completeness.

Still, my money's on the anal toys.


Itsang, referring you to the dexterity of the hand, perhaps you should have that talk with your wife after all ;-)


p.s. apologies if any offence has been taken, it's not my intent. Whatever makes you happy, (as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else) makes you happy, and that's ok!

[rcoreyus]

Its still a lot more socially acceptable for women to use sex toys than for men to. A woman with a vibrator, or a dildo is considered sexy. A man with a blow-up doll, or an anal toy tends to be thought of as a pervert.

I don't believe this, but I think it is the common perception .

[_redhot_]

It would be helpful to know what you are wanting it for? Honestly. Are you wanting to surprise your wife with it? If so I get the concept of surprise if not that doesn't make sense.