[Something_Awesome]

Middle of the road in performance. It's elegant and stylish (you can't do any better than LELO for that), but you won't be using it to break up cement during off hours. The point being, if you throw a major power tool at her out of the blue like one of those wands (the things with the big bulbous heads that sit on the clit and vibrate like a shuttle launch), she might be a bit put-off thinking you want her to take on a piece of heavy machinery.

Amazon carries LELO, yep. Be extra cool and get her two right off the bat - I've done that for GFs before and they love it because it shows you're totally invested in her pleasure. A good backup is the Mia, it's a lipstick vibe that she can take with her discreetly wherever she goes.

Why should I get 2? These things break? Low shelf life?

As for her taking one on the go, well, we talked about it and she says she would only want to use it with me. She also was concerned that sex wouldn't feel good with me anymore so we both decided to pass on the vibrator. Now this vibrator convo happened with her last night, so she does not know I am about to order one!!! ****Insert Devil Emoticon****

This forum has been amazing...

It looks like the Iris is shaped like a penis. I think we both would find that a little too vulgar. Anything shaped more discreetly?

[Motorguy]

Be careful... I heard that vibrating sensations on the testicles can lead to prostate cancer, which is why a lot of truck drivers get it.

They say you do this or do that you can get this. It feel to **** good, I not sure I couldn't quit having that done. Ill take my chances and plus it's not a like we do it a long time not like a truck drivers doing millions of miles in a ruck for hours on end.

[jen1447]

No they're very durable. Get her two for different applications and just to show that yes, you're so cool you didn't stop at just one vibrator for her.

The Iris is a great choice for a workhorse type thing, it's a standard dildo type vibe with lots of speed and pulse variations that you can use together for obvious things. The Mia is a lipstick vibe (about the size and shape of a lipstick) that is very portable and discreet, so she can travel with it if she likes, but it's also a great complimentary unit. For example, I use both during masturbation quite a lot - the Iris for penetration and the Mia on my clit. (Some women prefer rabbit vibes for this but I never cared for them.)

I've found that the Mia keeps a charge for a shorter time, but it shouldn't be an issue as long as you keep her on the charger when not in use.

It looks like the Iris is shaped like a penis. I think we both would find that a little too vulgar. Anything shaped more discreetly?

Only in the sense that it's phallus shaped, which is kind of ....necessary for the most part. It actually has stylized flower petals on the head, not a prefab penis looking head like are common on dildos.

[Something_Awesome]

You know what, nevermind, the amazon pictures made it appear more "vulgar" than I thought. I checked Lelo's website and the pictures were much better quality...

[Something_Awesome]

What do you mean by 2 applications? I am guessing you mean the colored part then screws off and another attachment can be screwed on? And you know what, I think I'll get the mia. I am starting to find that she may masturbate, thinking about me, which would be hot.

[jen1447]

See above comments ^ clit and penetration together, and just having a home vibe and an away vibe. There are no attachments, no.

[Something_Awesome]

Oh, I see... Well, I was hoping to be the "2nd application." And then I can just use the vibe on her clit.

Placing order now. Will let you know if this was a good idea or not!

[rcoreyus]

I got my wife a vibrator long ago. At first she was pretty shocked. Then decided to try. Then loved it. The only (but significant) down side is that she gradually became unable to orgasm without one (previously she had no trouble).

We've bought a wide range of toys that we quite enjoy. One thing though, its clear that different women like different things. She has never very much liked the LELO products, or the Jimyjane (both high end stuff). All fine, and fortunately we have enough money that $1000 in unused vibrators in the drawer isn't that bad. (I was surprised, to me both those brands seemed very nice and well made).

[Something_Awesome]

Need more details. So how is she now? You need the vibrator every time during sex? You can't make her orgasm with oral??

[Something_Awesome]

Ok guys, so I decided to talk to the GF again about this even though I wanted to surprise her. Rcorey added some doubt so I acted on it. Well, she said after we talked about using a vibrator while I am inside her made her wet all day lol. She says that she wishes she brought several panties to school because she woke up wet and has been so all day. Now, I know her real well and thought that the Iris would be a little too vulgar looking for her (it was for me a bit too but I am open minded).

So I am thinking about the MIA 2 from Lelo. Though, after reading reviews, the Iris seems amazing. Anyway, getting back on topic... After talking about it with her today, I have to get a vibrator. If she is going to be super wet over it, then I have to oblige. She's a great girl, and, no matter how bad she ends up wanting one, I know for a fact that she would never get one behind my back. She would only use one if we both were OK with it.

Not sure what the point of this post was, but I just felt compelled to update and share. I am also hopeful that I could use the Iris to help loosen her up a bit, which would be nice because I prefer a looser feeling. It doesn't look to thick though...