[Confusedman]

caution

my wife and I used toys for along time. Got to the point a toy was brought to bed everynight, (have huge collection) i caution the use of toys or in better words the lack of human to human. The ****-ring w/ vibe attachment was wonderfull but it got to the point of de-senseitzing her clit so for a couple weeks she didnt orgasm.

As Tony Sinclair says on the Tangoruay commericals" All things in Moderation"

[heatherh]

My wife uses toys not only when I am there but by herself and it is disturbing to me but she gave her reasons which to me are wrong. I agree that overuse can result in the lack of human contact. I think she has over 12 different sizes and shapes, some of which I can not believe she can use.

[rcoreyus]

Stiggy -

But one of my biggest fears in life is that we both die together in an accident and then our families have to come clean our house, and find all of our kinky stuff!! One of my good friends has a key for this explicit reason - she knows where our stuff is and to come get rid of it immediately!!

Belive it or not, this generation didn't invent kinky. I don't think the family will be all that shocked. I guess that if you think they will, having someone "clean up" is reasonable -but be careful. Sometimes when people die, "friends" come in and snatch the vaulables - can look very suspicous.

[LadyLane]

Family won't be all that shocked? Clearly you have never met my mother. LOL. Or my sister-in-law, for that matter.

[manxie]

I've got 2 toys that i use both with and without my boyfriend there. I've got a rampant rabbit that's fantastic but does make quite alot of noise, and a standard 6 inch or so vibrator that's moulded like a c**k and isn't so loud. I've been to sex shops and some of the toys are frankly scary in terms of size, and i would never let a guy use one on me that i wasn't comfortable with. Like the others say, from time to time it can help spice things up with each other but it can't replace human-human sex. I use mine mostly now when my boyfriend is away with work.