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  • Advice for using a remote controlled vibrator in public? Please share.

    Ladies,

    My husband and I have always joked about the fantasy of wanting to do something sexual in public, but we have never gotten brave enough. Recently, I stumbled onto several varieties of vibrating panties and other remote control vibrators that could be fun for public, but still discrete sexual play. I was looking at getting something as a surprise for a night out.

    I am hoping for some advice from other ladies that have tried one of these:
    1. Do you recommend the ones that sit on the clit or the internal ones?
    2. How do these feel wearing them out for 2 - 3 hours? Do they start to hurt or get boring?
    3. Did you orgasm? If so, any tips on how do this discretely?
    4. Any ground rules I should lay down? Or just let him have free will?
    5. Other advice?

    Thanks in advance for all guidance offered!

  • They're a bit underwhelming in my experience, mainly because they don't necessarily stimulate very well and they're not all that easy to wear (or they can be troublesome).

    1. Internal, tho even those are at risk of falling out if you do something wrong.
    2. Okay. I don't think I tried one quite that long tho.
    3. No, but I was planning to and we chose a booth at a restaurant to try it in (with some privacy). I think a big part of the thrill is the notion of not doing it discreetly, so you're walking kind of a fine line. If you hide somewhere it's just not that big a deal, but of course you can't just have a big thrashing O out in the open. If you're experienced at controlling your orgasms, you could theoretically have one (or a few) out in the open without anyone really being the wiser, they just have to be quiet little Os. Honestly I can think of better ways to do the same thing, like get a booth, sit next to each other, and get your guy's hand working in your lap.
    4. No rules, they'll wreck the thrill. You want to be out of control, not rigidly maintaining it.
    5. You might try one in a few test runs just to see how well it fits you, how well you can hang onto it, how well you like the stimulation, etc. I guess they have them now where they can supposedly respond to hand gestures on the part of the operator with similar sensations ....I'm a little skeptical of that because even with the state of wireless technology today it still seems to be lacking.

    Good luck!
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    • Originally posted by ginger_sun View Post
      Ladies,

      My husband and I have always joked about the fantasy of wanting to do something sexual in public, but we have never gotten brave enough. Recently, I stumbled onto several varieties of vibrating panties and other remote control vibrators that could be fun for public, but still discrete sexual play. I was looking at getting something as a surprise for a night out.

      I am hoping for some advice from other ladies that have tried one of these:
      1. Do you recommend the ones that sit on the clit or the internal ones?
      2. How do these feel wearing them out for 2 - 3 hours? Do they start to hurt or get boring?
      3. Did you orgasm? If so, any tips on how do this discretely?
      4. Any ground rules I should lay down? Or just let him have free will?
      5. Other advice?

      Thanks in advance for all guidance offered!
      Well Ginger-Sun for my wife Donna she has a pocket rocket that she uses a lot never leaves home without it. Sometime going out to dinner she will wear a dress. Well she will put a pair of panties being that she hardly wears any lol. When we get tot he restaurant in the car she will flip her dress up over her lap pull her panties to the side and put pocket rocket on low insert it in her vagina. The panties hold the pocket rocket in from falling out so for a hour she will buzz her self very nicely. Once in a while she get these shocks like a hot flash then will excuse her self to the ladies room to check the little pocket rocket and adjust things. So Donna, will rejoin me at the table and tell me she wetter then a water fall she can't wait to get home. That's when I say check please and get the hell out of there.
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      • Originally posted by jen1447 View Post
        They're a bit underwhelming in my experience, mainly because they don't necessarily stimulate very well and they're not all that easy to wear (or they can be troublesome).

        1. Internal, tho even those are at risk of falling out if you do something wrong.
        2. Okay. I don't think I tried one quite that long tho.
        3. No, but I was planning to and we chose a booth at a restaurant to try it in (with some privacy). I think a big part of the thrill is the notion of not doing it discreetly, so you're walking kind of a fine line. If you hide somewhere it's just not that big a deal, but of course you can't just have a big thrashing O out in the open. If you're experienced at controlling your orgasms, you could theoretically have one (or a few) out in the open without anyone really being the wiser, they just have to be quiet little Os. Honestly I can think of better ways to do the same thing, like get a booth, sit next to each other, and get your guy's hand working in your lap.
        4. No rules, they'll wreck the thrill. You want to be out of control, not rigidly maintaining it.
        5. You might try one in a few test runs just to see how well it fits you, how well you can hang onto it, how well you like the stimulation, etc. I guess they have them now where they can supposedly respond to hand gestures on the part of the operator with similar sensations ....I'm a little skeptical of that because even with the state of wireless technology today it still seems to be lacking.

        Good luck!
        Thanks for the tips. Did you have any trouble with wetness?

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        • Um ....that depends on what you consider trouble. I was a little wet, yeah (more from the naughtyness notion than anything I think), but that doesn't bother me too much - when I'm being bad.
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