[Quinroxanne]

I know it hurt to see it. If it was me I would ask my bf to throw it.

[Hopeless Dork]

Yep! I won't deny I'm a hypocrite with these sorts of things! It's mostly because I know what I'm thinking, but can only guess things about my SO.

On the money there, my dear. I catch myself doing the SAME THING. I'll do things and see no probs with them because I know my bf is my everything. The world pales in comparison to him.

The other day a guy slipped me his number and had done so in such a slick way I didn't realize til later that I had this guy's number. I shrugged it off and planned on throwing it away of course threw by some other stuff I planned to throw away and forgot all about it.

I came across it a day later when I was picking up the stuff to throw away, and didn't give it a second thought, into the trash it went. But I thought about it and if this situation had been reversed? Some girl slipping my bf her number, it not making its way to the trash YET, me finding it, I would have gone bananas over it.

I trust him, but that right there made me realize that I do trust myself more than I trust him and I think that is probably only natural. We know what things mean to us.

When a guy friend that is attractive contacts me, we talk and BS and I think NOTHING of him in a dirty way. Seriously, only eyes for my bf... but if he had an attractive friend contact him and talk and BS, i would of course not be mad, but in my heart i'd worry if he thought she was prettier etc etc...

Its the nature of the beast... even when you trust someone, sometimes you wonder their motives and what they think. I've come to learn with a lot of guys that they really don't think as deeply about interactions as we do. They don't ponder beyond the obvious as much as we do and drive ourselves crazy over.

That pic you guys uncovered mes t, probably meant zip to him, but he didn't want to upset you so hid it away... having the opposite effect.

[Mes T]

HD, I could cry, your post like took everything that I was thinking and phrased it so well. Gosh. I'm gonna re-read it every time I feel myself thinking about something too much. Like right now.