[Texinator]

Lacking kindness
Lacking intelligence
Lacking confidence

[mr.mansview]

smoker
heavy drinker
cheater
abusive
low sex drive
drugs
had a sex change

[Goodgirl93]

Lacking sense of humor
Lacking Confidence
Abusive
Alcoholic
Obsessive
Controlling

[Explorer44]

abusive
untrustworthy
secretive
smoking - triggers breathing challenges
cold
narcissistic

[GlitterAndStuds]

Don't rule out kids. I thought I'd rule out kids one of my preveous partners had kids. Turned out they were more fun and enjoyable than there mum.
I all depends on the kids some are a nightmare and some are a joy

Very true. I only say it because 1) I would never be ready to take on being a stepmom, or a figure of it. And 2) because I wouldn't want to run the risk of getting attached to the kid and then having the relationship end later. I always hear how it's harder to leave the kid than the person you were in the relationship with and I can understand it.

I HAVE dated a guy with a kid before, and oh man.... not fun, haha. She was lacking discipline, to say the least.

[Futureboy]

Very true. I only say it because 1) I would never be ready to take on being a stepmom, or a figure of it. And 2) because I wouldn't want to run the risk of getting attached to the kid and then having the relationship end later. I always hear how it's harder to leave the kid than the person you were in the relationship with and I can understand it.

I HAVE dated a guy with a kid before, and oh man.... not fun, haha. She was lacking discipline, to say the least.

1) Stepmom it's just a question of timing
2) Agree I am banned from seeing my exstep kids and it breaks my heart more than anyone could know

Bad kids reflect very badly on the parent and I believe your parenting views have to be aligned.

[jaygirlweek96]

Cheating

[GentlemanGhost]

btw guys i have dated like 4 girls in the last year.


-super conservative or super liberal.

BOTH me off a lot. I don't know why, but I need someone who can see multiple perspectives

-A weird shaped nose. Sorry, she doesn't have to have a perfect nose, I dated a girl for like one time that with a parrot looking nose........couldnt get past it.

-Not career driven.
Im not a sugar daddy

-fat
I just can't date someone who doesn't care enough about themselves not to be fat.

-self-absorbed
HATE THAT

-negative
HATE negative people


-Catwomen
Sorry, I don't wanna date someone who fights Batman....he rocks(not serious about this one)

[GentlemanGhost]

Arrogance
Bad hygiene
Tries too hard, always has to be "on"
Addict. no "program" guys please. been there, done that
Selfish
Bad kisser
No job or ambition. also been there, done that.
Super left-wing/ultra liberal

Meh, I was friends with a conservative princes who's parents sent her to college to find some guy to support her.



I think she is like 26 and still with her parents now.....no guy

[kygirl]

Thought I'd answer my own thread, so here are my dealbreakers:

ultra liberal
for sure doesn't want to have kids
someone who isn't okay with my level of ambition and/or isn't ambitious theirself
someone who doesnt have a sense of humor
someone who doesn't like to try new things
liars, cheaters, those types of people
people who are overly cocky
people who are uneducated
People who are not affectionate
Overly jealous people