[GentlemanGhost]

Ha, I get offended when I am not cardeed for alchohol, especially in stores that have that sign "if you appear under 40 you will be carded"... They should tread very carefully there...lol.

I don't think balding is unnattractive, I'd much prefer a guy with receeding hair line than long GNR slash like hair. Its all preference. I've never been attracted to men with long hair, even semi long, I've always found close cuts, shaved heads, millitary style cuts and bald and or balding far far more attractive.

Girls vary on that as much as guys do, some guys like a close short cut on a woman, some prefer long hair, some like curls, some like redheads, etc etc... who knows why we like what we do but hair loss doesn't turn me off at all.

I'd pick anthony edwards (ER) over George clooney any day of the week!

Honestly? I dont give a crud what a girl looks like as long as she has nice eyes and a good smile....


could be really overweight with no butt and I still wouldnt care.


Anyone with half a brain realizes that a attractive face is more valuable as the body fluctuates.


After that comes personaility.

[LanaBear]

Ugh...cashier's have now stopped asking me for ID 100% of the time.

Kind of eery.

HEHE - I'm 32 and still get carded. Yippeee!!!

[LanaBear]

Honestly? I dont give a crud what a girl looks like as long as she has nice eyes and a good smile....


could be really overweight with no butt and I still wouldnt care.


Anyone with half a brain realizes that a attractive face is more valuable as the body fluctuates.


After that comes personaility.

Maybe I'm off base, but curious nonetheless... Because most everything that you've posted completely contradicts what you stated above... Maybe I misinterpreted, but I recall numerous posts where you've stated you'll never date an ugly or overweight woman.

[GentlemanGhost]

Maybe I'm off base, but curious nonetheless... Because most everything that you've posted completely contradicts what you stated above... Maybe I misinterpreted, but I recall numerous posts where you've stated you'll never date an ugly or overweight woman.

Point taken.


A women won't be ugly if she has nice eyes and a face.


I am not repulsed by overweight women because of the appearance, it more has to deal with the fact that one must be very lazy in my age range(18-25) to be fat....


Your metabolism is fast when your young, you would have to eat bad....i mean really bad to be fat.


So, the laziness of fat people repulses me....

[LanaBear]

Point taken.

A women won't be ugly if she has nice eyes and a face.

Well that is a bit different from this...

Honestly? I dont give a crud what a girl looks like as long as she has nice eyes and a good smile....

Maybe that's where I got confused.

I am not repulsed by overweight women because of the appearance, it more has to deal with the fact that one must be very lazy in my age range(18-25) to be fat....

Your metabolism is fast when your young, you would have to eat bad....i mean really bad to be fat.

So, the laziness of fat people repulses me....

Some people do have medical problems regarding metabolism, men and women alike. I personally just don't feel you can be so black and white about something like that, but then again, it's just my .02.

[caterpillar79]

GentlemanGhost, I understand where you're coming from. But the way you generalize people bothers me so much, I need to tell you.

Like Lana stated earlier, people have their own issues. While some might be lazy as you said, others are trying/doing their best to get in shape, but have medical issues, i.e. thyroid problems among others.

*just sharing...

[sourpuss]

GentlemanGhost, I understand where you're coming from. But the way you generalize people bothers me so much, I need to tell you.

Like Lana stated earlier, people have their own issues. While some might be lazy as you said, others are trying/doing their best to get in shape, but have medical issues, i.e. thyroid problems among others.

*just sharing...

I agree. It's really bothering me as well.

[sherrybalesteros]

I think it depends if the girl met you when you were bald already or you got bald after. But personally we are not that shallow to look at the hair of the guy, we always go for the personality and character more than the outer aspects of the man.

[sherrybalesteros]

Honestly? I dont give a crud what a girl looks like as long as she has nice eyes and a good smile....


could be really overweight with no butt and I still wouldnt care.


Anyone with half a brain realizes that a attractive face is more valuable as the body fluctuates.


After that comes personaility.

Very very well said gentlemanghost..