[amyjo]

i thought maybe he was using the sisters got a game as an excuse for the same reason, stressed. and i asked his sister bout it again and she said he did want to go but just couldnt. ??? and i thought maybe it was because he thought i liked him and he doesnt like me, so he didnt want to go on a 'date'. ???
maybe i will need to 'bump' into him. we never get to hang out or even look at eachother.

[stressed]

I don't like that he avoids contact after that 'failed date'. Or that you need to contact his sister to learn from him. Why doesn't he contact you directly or explain why the date was cancelled? He doesn't sound like a very nice guy to me, more like someone afraid of consequences. I think you'd have a better time with another guy, as this one doesn't seem able to make you feel good about yourself or secure. And his behaviour is quite rude.

[Guest]

I agree with everything Stressed has said. Even if he may be shy there is no excuse for that type of behavior.

[amyjo]

yeah because up until then we saw eachother pretty regular. in hallways and such. we would speak to eachother and joke around. but ever since it came out that i might like him, we dont speak. so its either...he thought we were just friends and now i might want more and he doesn't want that, so hes going to avoid me. or...he found out i might like him and he might like me, but doesnt kno how to go about any of it so he feels awkward and doesnt kno what to do.

i asked his sister about the avoiding thing and she doesnt think he is avoiding me, she says he wouldnt do that. and i dont think hes intentionally avoiding me. like on purpose, but we dont seem to see eachother. not that we were super close before...

[stressed]

Well... if he has told his sister to tell you that then of course she will tell you so. But don't you have his cell phone number? Can't you ask his sister for it? It seems very strange that you talk to his sister but haven't talked with him. Plus, if she doesn't think he's avoiding you then she can talk to him herself and tell him to contact you because all this makes her uncomfortable. I think you spend much more time thinking about him than he does thinking about you.

[amyjo]

yes i agree stressed...with it all. yesturday i actually talked to him but it was just a fun joking quick 2 minute how ya doin. we were the only two in the hallway so. ...and i also found out yesturday that he likes a girl in my grade. theres a bit of an age difference for those two because shes older in my grade and dont kno how. lol. but she is one of my friends...not a close friend by any means tho. and this girl says she is deciding between him and another guy. she doesnt kno i like him. and the other guy has liked her for like eight years and hes only going to get hurt bc she doesnt really care about the relationship...with either one. and if shes chosing and deciding to be with the one i like then obviously she doesnt like him that much...if she has to think about it. but im ok...im not hurt that im not with him. i did like him and still do in a way. but when u dont talk to someone for so long...u drift apart.

[sourpuss]

I think you should move on to someone who pays you attention. I'm wondering how many guys in your school have a crush on you and have been trying to get your attention but you just haven't noticed because of this guy.

[stressed]

I'm wondering how many guys in your school have a crush on you and have been trying to get your attention but you just haven't noticed because of this guy.

Excellent point.

[newhere808]

I think you should move on to someone who pays you attention. I'm wondering how many guys in your school have a crush on you and have been trying to get your attention but you just haven't noticed because of this guy.

There could even be guys that aren't bothering to try cause they think your caught up with someone else. You never can tell.

[GentlemanGhost]

Fart in public while dancing on one foot. Then, ask him if he likes the smell of your gas. Make sure the date is at a place that serves beans!!!




Kidding.......However, I bet there is quite a few forum members who are laughing their butts off right now