[sourpuss]

Skip all the B.S. The less fluff the better. Girls are just like guys. Like you want to meet girls...they want to meet guys.

Seriously, do you really want to meet her for coffee?

Tell her what's really on your mind.

Ask her to meet you for drinks.

"Hey I was planning on heading to so and so place on friday night to grab a drink....wanna go with me/meet me there?"

Play some darts, shoot some pool. Let her win if she's terrible.

Last thing....she's not a prize...she's a woman just like all the other women you are going to go out with this year. Put her on a pedestal and you'll strike out real quick.

No politics, no money talk, no psychology or sociology....and don't drink too much.

Talk about school and work your family- and stay positive. Ask her questions that you are truly concerned about. Where's she from...why'd she choose your school, where does she work...what's she trying to do in life.....

This should be fun...not stressful...

Good luck.

Just me but I much rather meet for coffee or lunch than for drinks at a bar.

[GentlemanGhost]

Skip all the B.S. The less fluff the better. Girls are just like guys. Like you want to meet girls...they want to meet guys.

Seriously, do you really want to meet her for coffee?

Tell her what's really on your mind.

Ask her to meet you for drinks.

"Hey I was planning on heading to so and so place on friday night to grab a drink....wanna go with me/meet me there?"

Play some darts, shoot some pool. Let her win if she's terrible.

Last thing....she's not a prize...she's a woman just like all the other women you are going to go out with this year. Put her on a pedestal and you'll strike out real quick.

No politics, no money talk, no psychology or sociology....and don't drink too much.

Talk about school and work your family- and stay positive. Ask her questions that you are truly concerned about. Where's she from...why'd she choose your school, where does she work...what's she trying to do in life.....

This should be fun...not stressful...

Good luck.

Seriously, WHY are you these forums(no offense)? Your good looking(not gay),successful(from what I can tell), and your not cocky with a good personality.



I initially came to this forum because I had trouble getting women(personality issues). That would probably be the only reason for a guy to INITIALLY google this forum(that and maybe asking for sexual advice)

[GentlemanGhost]

Just me but I much rather meet for coffee or lunch than for drinks at a bar.

Lol, ya drinks at a bar might give her the impression that your just trying to get into her pants. At least that's what I was thinking

[GentlemanGhost]

Be you.

If YOU are someone who is romantic, sweet, (i.e. ALL about her as you said) then be that. But if you are someone who by nature does not lean in that direction other than to "secure the catch", then please.....don't "woo" her. Don't fill her mind when how things "could be" and give her some false sense of hope that she's found "the one". Nothing worse than a guy who pretends to be what he thinks you want, so he can get you, then he gets you and POOF....he miraculously evolves into "This is who I am, take it or leave it".

You want her? Or at least you want a shot at it...... so save yourself and the girl ALOT of time. Don't try to read her and determine what she'll like based on who you think she is. Be yourself, true down to your core and expect the same......and if she likes that, then GREAT. If she doesn't, better not to waste time huh?

Just be yourself.

Lol, I am constantly evolving. So, I don't think I am going to give her my real self TODAY....as that changes for the better each month(I have people look at my personality flaws and then POOF I work on changing myself for the better).

[sourpuss]

Seriously, WHY are you these forums(no offense)? Your good looking(not gay),successful(from what I can tell), and your not cocky with a good personality.



I initially came to this forum because I had trouble getting women(personality issues). That would probably be the only reason for a guy to INITIALLY google this forum(that and maybe asking for sexual advice)

Everyone is welcome here no matter the reason they post here. (aside from spam, which OTYA isn't a spammer) This forum is for discussion, not necessarily just for people who have 'problems'.

[Guest]

Seriously, WHY are you these forums(no offense)? Your good looking(not gay),successful(from what I can tell), and your not cocky with a good personality.

I came because I was seeking information on sex toys to confirm some of my suspicions.

I stayed because I realized there are so many out there that need assistance.

It's interesting....my opinions and points of view and requests for equality aren't well received for the most part- the irony is that I seem to be among the very, very few without life, work or relationship issues.

I still put in my two cents because I know the easy way out and the right thing to do are usually two different things and that the latter isn't always popular. Whattya gonna do?

If you want dating advice....take it from me. I've been on hundreds and thousands of successful dates and hundreds and thousands of failed dates. Once it hits you that dating isn't a big deal is when you start getting good at it.

I don't rely on that PUA drek- that is simply teaching socially challenged guys how to become deceptive and live a lie.

Make yourself who you want to be and you don't need lies and skullduggery to get laid or find a partner.

Sounds like you are on that path....the women will come soon enough.

Good luck.

[sourpuss]

I stayed because I realized there are so many out there that need assistance.

So you're only here because you're doing us all a favor?

[GentlemanGhost]

So you're only here because you're doing us all a favor?

I would probably just leave it at that and not press too much. I don't think we want another fight resulting in bans.

[Guest]

So you're only here because you're doing us all a favor?

I'm trying to help if that is what you are asking.

Otherwise, there are members that I have gained respect for and I like to follow their discussions.

I hone my writing skills as an added benefit.

And lastly, I think we can all agree, the forum is definitely entertaining.

[GentlemanGhost]

I'm trying to help if that is what you are asking.

Otherwise, there are members that I have gained respect for and I like to follow their discussions.

I hone my writing skills as an added benefit.

And lastly, I think we can all agree, the forum is definitely entertaining.

Are females just all over you? It really isn't common to find a intelligent,successful, good looking guy these days.

Well, you did say you go on thousands of dates...