I found a great book that also might help...it explains it all when it comes to women. It's called The PMS (Please Make Sense) Guide for Men. It helped my husband...lol (We got it on Amazon)
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She does sound like she is interested....but being very cautious. I was the same way with my now husband, we had a long distance relationship for years (it dragged on b/c of my fears). Thank goodness he was/is a patient man and very understanding. I think you should talk to her and express your feelings, but don't make her feel overwhelmed. Let her know exactly what you expressed in this post. It's better to know where her head is at then keep wondering.
I found a great book that also might help...it explains it all when it comes to women. It's called The PMS (Please Make Sense) Guide for Men. It helped my husband...lol (We got it on Amazon) -
I figure it's time to update this post - and another thanks to all who provided input.
As with most thing, communication was the problem. She wasn't interested in relationship with me - she just wanted to be friends.
I mis-interpreted some stuff; and that's my fault. I was hoping for more, based on how I felt and what I thought she felt, but I was wrong.
Our friendship is stronger, I'm a better person, I'm more aware of certain things and what they may or may not mean, so all is good!Comment
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Glad you figured it all out. At least you didn't wait for too long in limbo. Keep it up.I figure it's time to update this post - and another thanks to all who provided input.
As with most thing, communication was the problem. She wasn't interested in relationship with me - she just wanted to be friends.
I mis-interpreted some stuff; and that's my fault. I was hoping for more, based on how I felt and what I thought she felt, but I was wrong.
Our friendship is stronger, I'm a better person, I'm more aware of certain things and what they may or may not mean, so all is good!
Thank you for updating us about your recent development. A lot of posters pose a problem, ask for input and then just leave and never come back to tell us what had happened - what worked and what didn't.Last edited by caterpillar79; 05-24-2011, 09:11 AM.Comment
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