[collegegirl2010]

I have so much going on right now. This guy that I'm talking to likes me but I'm starting to see him as a jerk, plus I'm in like with another guy instead of him. The guy I'm talking to now is constantly trying to force me into sending him nude pics, when I told him the very first day we started talking that I was a virgin and wasn't ready for stuff like that...He's so hung up on the fact that he wants to lose his virginity because he's 19 and tired of being a virgin, so what I'm 18 and still one. I feel like if I can wait he can...So with that said should I go more into detail with him about how I feel and hope he understands? Or just give it up and let the other guy I like know how I feel?

[Ashlee T.]

Drop the zero. First off, never send a dude nude texts (sounds like you already know that), but seriously, DON'T do it. Second, if he's asked once and you said no, then asking twice is too much. No means no and if he's just out looking to lose his v, then he should find someone with much less integrity and much lower standards. You're too good for that girl. Keep being you and don't ever let a guy talk you into anything you're not comfortable with.

[WildChild]

Tell Mr Nude Pics to go buy a magazine. He needs to grow up and that has nothing to do with giving up his virginity.

[lonestar]

tell the douche to f off... if you're not ready, you're not ready. Listen to yourself, not a horny 19 year old.

[hizenberg]

true with all the replys so far, and yes definatley dont give any naked pics out to any guy.it is a very bad mistake. sounds like this guy is a loser and if hes going to loose his virginity he is to grow up. who would want to loose their virginity to some guy who is just in it for himself you know? and i think that by you saying no 1 time is enough, he has to accept that,why should you have to explain yourself honey? no is a good enough answer for anyone. esp when we're talking about virginity. and if you can wait untill the time is right for you that is fantastic,so many girls give it up to some who isnt going to value it.good for you by the way on not giving in to giving him pics. he sounds like a douche bag who needs to keep 'dreaming' lol

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Honey, where did he get to know you? You know that person? Don't be confused, see it for what it is . He isn't into you, rather, wants to gain , control get you to do what you don't want, why waste your time?

Remember your woman hear you roar

Don't waste your time ever on someone who wants your body, rather they want to know you and love you..

Geez, dreaming indeed... want to give to someone that is going to hurt and use? na, I say

[collegegirl2010]

Honey, where did he get to know you? You know that person? Don't be confused, see it for what it is . He isn't into you, rather, wants to gain , control get you to do what you don't want, why waste your time?

Remember your woman hear you roar

Don't waste your time ever on someone who wants your body, rather they want to know you and love you..

Geez, dreaming indeed... want to give to someone that is going to hurt and use? na, I say

That's exactly how I feel, but he thinks I'm over reacting...and I kind of already sent him a photo but I feel really bad about it
He keeps telling me he cares about my feelings everytime I tell him how I feel about the situation, but I don't know if he cares about me or just cares about my feelings. I told him I feel like he's trying to use me for sex, but he continues to say he's not, he simply stated," You think I just want to ...?" and I told him that that was exactly how I feel. But we've only known each other 5 days and he's talking about sex...it made me really angry.

[collegegirl2010]

true with all the replys so far, and yes definatley dont give any naked pics out to any guy.it is a very bad mistake. sounds like this guy is a loser and if hes going to loose his virginity he is to grow up. who would want to loose their virginity to some guy who is just in it for himself you know? and i think that by you saying no 1 time is enough, he has to accept that,why should you have to explain yourself honey? no is a good enough answer for anyone. esp when we're talking about virginity. and if you can wait untill the time is right for you that is fantastic,so many girls give it up to some who isnt going to value it.good for you by the way on not giving in to giving him pics. he sounds like a douche bag who needs to keep 'dreaming' lol

Thanks, but I kind of already sent him a photo...but I talk to him about it, and how I feel he only wants sex. We got into a big argument and neither of us are talking to each other...now what I'm really worried about is the fact that he might expose my picture

[ManINeedACoffee]

Ugh, I HATE it when guys throw the "You're overreacting" card at you when you're simply sticking up for yourself. It's manipulation, and it's cheap.

He can say that he cares about your feelings, but what are his actions telling you? You seem to be aware that he's more concerned with losing his own virginity rather than you. And I would bet that if you ever did have sex with him, you'd never hear from him again.

Don't let someone guilt you into doign something you're not comfortable with. Real men respect your boundaries and your wishes. Boys do not.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Girls, sometimes will do things, and regret it.. And, boys will pressure for more, my opinion? You stop talking to him full stop... 5 days, and he's talking about sex? 5 days and he's seen a photo of you? 5 days and he has no idea who you are personally, only physically. You made a mistake, he's coning you, cut off communication...

PS: You didn't answer how you met him? Over the net?

PSS: I'm closing your other thread as it's the same as this one...